Post Date December, 02 2023
Marriage is the happiest thing in everyone's life, and everyone should manage their marriage well. A sweet and happy life before marriage will be consumed by various tedious life after marriage. The choice of infidelity by married men seems to be a common occurrence, and it may be due to issues with your sexual life. In fact, it is not so difficult to capture a man's heart. Here are 7 "remedies" for married women that can help you freeze a man's infidelity, which should bring you some help.
1. It doesn't matter if you don't work, but you need to have your own source of income
Whether you have a formal job or not is not the main issue. Of course, having a stable job is the safest. If you don't, you need to learn to invest or something. Anyway, you need to have the ability to support yourself.
Prescription: Make investments to continue ensuring one's independent life, prepare for work, pay attention to potential investment opportunities, and be prepared for potential changes at any time.
2. It's not a good thing for women to care too much about their family. The family belongs to two people and should be managed together
The premise is to think and do it for him and the child. Over time, the responsibility of the family falls entirely on one person. He feels that everything is normal like this. If one day you want him to do something for your family, it will cause resentment.
Prescription: It's about sharing family responsibilities and gradually shifting the focus to men. Just help yourself, don't have to support yourself, and end up half tired and not pleasing. Household chores are also a part of the burden, otherwise I would really think that household chores are not tiring.
3. Economic power needs to be mastered, and a sense of prevention is essential
In the past, I used to hear him say that his salary wasn't enough for me, so I didn't want him to have a penny. In the end, he realized that he wouldn't have to support his children anymore because he didn't see this family using too little money. Even in times of crisis, I could borrow money without him, and of course, I didn't need him to repay the money. Anyway, someone in the family provided money, and his own money was just enough to please his mistress.
Prescription: Even if a man has less money, he must use it together. Although he hands in less than he takes away, there must be a known destination. Otherwise, if a woman works hard to save money and support her family, other women over there will spend all their money to help you. And in terms of economy, it is inevitable to take precautions, as private money is always available.
4. You must be healthy and beautiful yourself
My body is the capital, so I must take good care of it. In his words, "Take care of yourself. If you're sick, I won't care about you.
Prescription: Firstly, take good care of your body. Health comes first, and secondly, dress yourself well. If you are beautiful, your mood will naturally improve.
5. Don't worry too much about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
My mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, this is an old saying. Prescription: If they don't get along, let's just let them play on their own. They don't have to take action or deal with it, because when they find out that you take action, things get troublesome, just like one person can't sing a drama. If you ignore their tricks, they will feel like they have no taste, and instead, they won't have much to worry about.
Finally, after changing all the above, I found that the man's mind had gone crazy again. He didn't plan to divorce anymore and even said he wanted to grow old with me.
Sequela: Trust is no longer 100%, but it doesn't matter anymore, because women have learned to love themselves, which is the most important thing for women.
6. Children should be brought together by spouses, and it is not advisable for single mothers in marriage to do so
Most mothers always take care of their children's clothing, food, housing, transportation, and studies, as well as their specialties such as tutoring. Dads spend a lot of time playing the sign of work and socializing, feeling bored and thinking that no one cares at home, so they go outside to find warmth.
Prescription: Don't forget that he is the father of the child. It is natural for him to do something for the child. It is better for him to spend more time with the child than with other women.
7. I cannot see his various behaviors
Out of sight, out of mind, and unable to change him even if he sees it, it also makes him proud. Look at how excellent a man I am. Women from home and abroad are fighting and fighting, so it's better to please oneself than to please him. As for what he likes, let's do it. Of course, the consequences must be explained to him first, and then don't say we are unjust.
Prescription: Do whatever you need to do. If you don't take it seriously, you will have your id.
Don't forget the piercing line from Sister Lin in Dream of the Red Chamber: Either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overwhelms the east wind. Only when you are no longer willing to be under pressure can you become the master.
Finally, what I want to say is that both men and women cherish each other's emotions and do not engage in infidelity, which can have a certain impact on both parties' lives.
