Post Date December, 02 2023
As a couple, living together every day, there are always times when there are obstacles, and when conflicts cannot be resolved, there will be a cold war phenomenon. If the Cold War is not dealt with in a timely manner, it can easily lead to the breakdown of marriage. So, how should we face the Cold War issue?
1. Conduct self-criticism
In the face of the cold war between husband and wife, we should all remain calm and not blame each other. When conflicts arise, regardless of who is right or wrong, blaming at will only add fuel to the fire. So, it's best to calm down, start from yourself, think about your mistakes, and do more self criticism, which can help alleviate tense relationships.
2. Choose to temporarily separate
When we experience a cold war, temporary separation can give each other more space. And this brief separation can help us calm down and think about the right and wrong of things. When our mindset calms down, we naturally think things will become much clearer. And when you miss each other, it's the time to make up.
3. First, lower your head
Lowering your head does not necessarily mean giving up, nor does it mean admitting that you are wrong. As the saying goes, after a hundred years of cultivation, one can cross the same boat, and after a thousand years of cultivation, one can sleep together. If you want this relationship to continue, someone must bow down first. And from a psychological perspective, the decisions you make proactively are much better than the choices you passively accept. The other party often shows generosity and room for maneuver due to the first bow of your head, so that the couple's cold war can be resolved as soon as possible.
4. Conduct a conversation
Conversation and communication are the fundamental ways to solve problems. No matter how long the Cold War lasts, if you want to change this stalemate, conversation is necessary. After you have all calmed down and calmed down, you can initiate a conversation. The place of conversation can be some meaningful places. For example, the restaurant on your first date, the mountaintop where he proposed to you, and so on.
In short, there are always conflicts between couples that lead to the outbreak of the Cold War. Faced with these problems, we should approach them calmly and solve them well. If neither side makes concessions and blames the other side blindly, it will only exacerbate the conflict and lead to the breakdown of the marriage relationship.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
