Post Date December, 03 2023
In the face of an unfaithful man, many women just gnash their teeth and make a scene. This is actually a stupid method. To save his broken home, one should first analyze the reasons to see if there is any value and possibility of recovery. If it can be redeemed, you must spare no effort to solve this thorny problem by using all means.
Secret contest method
Compete with a third party hiding in the dark. Give your husband more consideration and care, such as improving his cooking skills, making more dishes he likes to eat, and tying his stomach; Learn more about and respect your husband's interests, and if possible, try sharing some fun with him; Actively give him private space to make him feel that you are considerate; Or come up with interesting ideas to give him a new feeling... In short, make him firmly attracted to you, as if he had just met you. Then he doesn't have to look elsewhere for novelty.
Psychologist analysis: Men's boredom with inherent sexual relationships has both subjective and objective reasons. Women's own laziness and numbness about love can also make men feel uninterested. Although it is not yet intolerable to each other, it has gradually drifted away. When you are full of resentment about a man's infidelity, you might as well look back and examine your marriage life with them. If you are willing to make changes, don't take it as simply pleasing a man. This is your effort for your own love and happiness.
Control and blackmail method
Once a man "splits legs," he can ostensibly remain calm, but secretly take charge of the economic power of the family first, using family finance as an excuse to let him turn in most of his income; Actively promoting feelings and forming alliances with children can make them feel isolated, as if they are real or fake.
At the same time, suggest that you already know his affairs and let him consider the possible consequences for himself. Of course, if you don't really want to break up with him, don't be in a hurry to come straight to him and show your cards. Give him a step, maybe his legs will be taken back when he steps out.
Psychologist analysis: The economy and children are the weak points of a man. As long as he is not deeply involved, he will be pulled back from the cliff due to these two reasons. Although not without consequences, for a man who has betrayed his wife and been unfaithful to his family, even with a slight punishment, the intention is to mislead him. Of course, if we want to last forever in the future, we need to conduct more constructive communication and exchanges.
Active attack method
Rather than being beaten passively, it is better to take the initiative and directly invite the third party out to talk. I believe you will also be curious about what kind of person the other person is. The relationship between women is very delicate, especially in situations like yours. Although harboring grudges, as long as one of the parties takes the first step, it is easy to obtain relief and communication.
As a woman, the other person may understand your feelings and admire your courage. But if unfortunately you encounter a willful or unreasonable third party, you might as well show your courage and domineering spirit. Since there must be a decision, then all three people have to make a choice without any way out. Of course, everyone is an adult, and we can be honest with each other. Don't turn the ending into a farce.
Psychologist analysis: In the whole incident, you are the most innocent and the most reasonable one. If the most powerful and impulsive party adopts a rational approach, then everyone can think calmly. "Where to go and where to go, perhaps after weighing it, we will have the result.". The reason of cutting through chaos with a sharp knife is cruel, but it is also the most effective. Don't be afraid that the outcome will not be as desired, at least you have made the best choice.
Most men are not willing to sacrifice their family at the expense of cheating. This is a multi-party game between men's determination, desire, fluke mentality, financial resources, energy, and women's charm, insight, courage, as well as traditional and modern concepts. Although it may not be possible to recover from cheating, women's ingenious tactics may be able to bring about a bright future in the path of family happiness.
