Post Date December, 02 2023
A few days ago, my best friend Xiao Gu dragged a large suitcase and cried as she knocked on my door. My eyes were swollen like a walnut, and my makeup was painstakingly painted. I didn't have the courage to open this door in the middle of the night.
I gently patted its back and handed her a large bag of paper, extremely worried.
After taking out half of the box of paper, Xiao Gu finally regained his composure and told the whole story, saying that she finally knew what Baoma Man looked like.
Xiao Gu and Lao Lin have been married for four or five years and have saved some money. They used to live in the south of the city with their mother-in-law, but now they plan to buy a new house.
Xiao Gu's parents have always lived in the north of the city, and they have also chosen a two bedroom apartment with a good location in the north and a clear north-south connection. Xiaogu thought to herself that living in the north of the city would be more convenient for taking care of her parents, as the two elderly people were also getting older and she also wanted to fulfill her filial piety well.
Who knew that Lao Lin's mother strongly disagreed, saying that this new house must be bought in the south of the city. One reason is that Lao Lin's mother has a hobby of playing mahjong. I went to the north of the city, but I am not familiar with the place, and this mahjong is basically useless.
Xiaogu was very upset. He asked Laolin, who knew that he didn't even think about it, and said that he had to listen to his mother. It was not easy for his mother to raise him. This matter was not discussed.
Is it easy for my parents to raise me? Why don't you consider considering me? "Xiao Gu was furious and packed his luggage.
In addition, in daily life, Lao Lin also follows his mother's orders. Mother the final say everything, and never talks with her. But this purchase is just the last straw to kill the camel.
If your boyfriend buys clothes, you still need your mother to make up her mind.
My mother accompanies me when I look for a job.
When I am with my mother, I act like a child and sometimes act spoiled.
I listen very much to my parents. During your conversation, countless' my mom 'and' my mom said 'were interspersed
Having high demands on women. I hope they are gentle and virtuous, and the kitchen above and below the hall not only serves the outside but also the inside.
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That's right, you've met Baoma Man.
On the surface, such men listen to their mothers very well and treat them well, but in reality, this is just a superficial phenomenon, and deep down, they have an unknown shadow.
In psychological terms, they have a serious split - dividing their mother's image into "good mother" and "bad mother", projecting good mother to the real mother, and easily projecting bad mother to their wife.
Due to this psychological mechanism, they cannot express bad emotions towards their real mother, but they can project bad emotions onto their wife. They absolutely cannot distance themselves from their mothers, but they can seemingly distance themselves from their wives without any reason.
So, when women are looking for a lover, they must not use rigid logic - a person who is good to their mother will also be good to their wife. If this kind of good is flowing and free, it is true. If this seems like a dogma, then the better for the mother, the worse for the wife.
You can't just think that Ma Baonan is a good baby. There is a man who uses the image of "Ma Bao" as a shield and always says "I'm sorry, my mother wants me to accompany her". The caller ID of all the cheating partners is "Mom". You think their mother and son have a really good relationship, but in fact, you are just his other mother. So, don't mistake 'Mabao' for filial piety.
Avoiding mommy boys is important, but more importantly, why do you choose obedient men? Unless you understand your psychology, Ma Baonan is your right man.
For men, if they find themselves a mommy boy, they must realize that this is a big problem, and it takes a long way to go from being a mommy's darling to becoming a true man. This is necessary, otherwise your life will have a great sense of emptiness, and you will also feel that there is a big black hole inside you.
