Post Date December, 03 2023
Apologizing to your wife is also learned. You cannot go straight. You need to have a good grasp of the time, location, and temperature in order to achieve twice the result with half the effort. After carefully summarizing, I realized the following points:
If you are stingy, apologize immediately; If it's' grand ', we'll apologize in a few days. If 'stingy' doesn't apologize immediately and only argue with their wife, it can easily lead to bigger conflicts, making small things bigger is not cost-effective. But "grandeur" is different. It's no use apologizing immediately for "grandeur". It's difficult for my wife's anger to dissipate at the moment. It's better to wait for her anger to dissipate in a few days before apologizing.
Secondly, if you want to apologize, you must first assume a posture of never apologizing. You apologize every day, every now and then, and apologies are cheap. Even before you apologize, your wife knows you're going to apologize. It's boring. Why don't you calm down and make her think you're a stone in the manger, smelly and hard? Then, if you accidentally admit a mistake to her and make her think it's a result of hard work, she'll be overjoyed and apologize and succeed.
Thirdly, sometimes it is necessary to apologize explicitly, and sometimes it is necessary to apologize by implication. Although there may not be many arguments, they cannot withstand the accumulation of time. If there are more apologies, it is important to pay attention to the diversity of forms. Sometimes it's a joke, a joke, a self deprecation, and subtly conveying the meaning of an apology. With a moment of thought, the wife understands your meaning, but it's actually more effective than saying it clearly.
The fourth is to die without apologizing on certain issues and be stubborn to the end. My wife needs you to apologize in this way to prove your love for her and her ability to control you. However, in the end, she doesn't want you to be a real sheep, but rather a real man. Therefore, in some things, you must adhere to your principles and never apologize.
