Post Date November, 16 2024
1、 Discussing gamification, couples can use gaming to discuss rooms, and taking turns is one of the most effective communication strategies. For example, say to him that in the next half hour, he can reasonably demand that you meet his requirements, and it's his turn to meet your requirements instead. This game allows you to easily guide him to understand your preferences. For him, these are part of the game, part of the play, so there is no need to worry about hurting himself. Moderate seasoning and spices can increase the color and aroma of food. Similarly, with a little effort and a slight change in imagination, your sexual life will naturally be like a fish getting water.
2、 Plan how to communicate, tell your husband the best way to make you happy, don't write down your desires and demands on paper, look. Most people feel shy when it comes to their innermost sexual needs and desires. You may be worried. I don't know what he thinks of me. Will my behavior scare him? Does he think I place too much emphasis on sex and strangeness? In fact, men, like women, are not very clear about expressing their demands in bed. So don't worry. The method of communication is to start with small things and try to be concise. Just saying you want to kiss me is not clear. You must clearly state when and where he kissed you. For example, when we have sex, if we can reach orgasm, just kiss my lips hard. This kind of speech ensures that even the most confused husband will not make mistakes.
3、 Work hard on wording. If you list all the bad things your husband does in bed, he will immediately go out and borrow alcohol to relieve his worries. It should be noted that sexual desire is the main factor in male identity, as they are sensitive to their own love. Criticism of their performance can make them feel defeated. This is not to speak silently to avoid angering him, but to pay attention to language. Before pointing out any mistakes, first point out that he did well to avoid hurting his self-esteem.
4、 There is no need to worry about changes in sexual behavior. Pornographic movies and magazines always depict sex as spontaneous and explosive pleasure, and people do not realize that in real life, as relationships progress, sex can also change. Having been together for a long time, I can no longer feel the intense pleasure of spending the past few nights with my husband. Because you know his body. You already have a clear understanding of his body odor, caressing, and technique. Many husbands no longer come home to make love, but instead cook delicious dinner with their partners and adjust the bath water for them. They may massage each other, and women bring breakfast to bed for their partners. It's not that two people become sexually indifferent and lack sexual desire, but that they have found other ways to express their love for each other. Discussing the normal and average quantity of sex, focusing on the so-called normal and average quantity, without paying attention to one's own needs and pleasure. The pleasure of sex is closely related to personal needs, personality, sexual impulses, and the degree of love. The two are satisfied with their current sexual life, and it can be said that your sexual life is normal, and there is no need to compare it with the so-called normal standards.
