Post Date December, 02 2023
Q:
"My husband, who has been married for five years, finally divorced me. After signing the divorce, he quickly walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau without hesitation and without looking back. I know that only with another woman waiting for him can he do so without hesitation.".
When my husband and I got married, it was a combination of "men, wealth, and women," and everyone envied us. After getting married, we also had a very happy life. After giving birth to a child, I stayed at home and taught my husband and children, enjoying ourselves. As my child grows up, I feel more and more fulfilled and happy. My husband has always been nice to me. He has been busy working outside, and I don't feel anything. As long as he can eat the breakfast I make every day, I am very satisfied.
Later, someone advised me to be careful, saying that he had a woman outside. I was in a panic all of a sudden. How could such things happen in my life? My husband is a very good person! But when he came home, I still asked him. He was surprised and admitted that the woman was his secretary. She was able to handle many things for him and was very capable. He appreciated him very much. "I have seen that secretary, who is only moderately long. Compared to me, he is really not as good-looking as me.". "I'm really unconvinced about this, and I think he'll find out sooner or later.".
After he confessed, he filed for a divorce, and there was no room for it. Because I love him, I promised him. But I think I will still be at home with the child waiting for him to come back.
Answer:
It is important for a woman to have a beautiful appearance, which is a unique advantage bestowed on you by heaven. However, if you do not know how to use this advantage, it will be "useless for heroes.". As the saying goes, being beautiful is not as good as living beautiful, just being beautiful is far from enough. It is evident that your ex husband has chosen a secretary who is not as capable as you but is not. "The face ages easily, but only the brightness of wisdom can shine more and more brightly.".
So, what you need to do now is not to wait for him to come back at home. Don't put all the hope and significance of life on a man. You should change your passive position in life, take the initiative to go out and find more fun in life, make your life full and meaningful, and bring your charm back to you. Just like beauty contests, we always adhere to the principle of "beauty and wisdom". Live a beautiful life. Remarriage, just waiting, can't wait until he comes back. In addition, you need to be aware that while you are sitting and waiting, another woman may be putting her marriage plan on the agenda.
