Post Date December, 02 2023
Husband and wife quarrels are almost a phenomenon that occurs in every family. As the saying goes, there is no spoon that does not touch the edge of the pot, but when arguing, it is important to speak with moderation and not speak harshly just because you want to have a good time. Perhaps just because one harsh word from you hurts a man's heart and leads to the loss of your love or marriage, what are the four most common harsh words that women cannot say?
Why are you so useless!
Women care most about their emotional connections with others, while men care most about their own abilities. Women, especially those who are married, often complain about their husbands' incompetence. Such accusations of incompetence can be both professional and real-life, but it is often this sentence that greatly hurts men's self-esteem.
The manifestation of career success and ability is the most important part of a man's life, and blindly satirizing and satirizing can only put him in a desperate situation. Every man has different abilities, and since women choose, they should face reality.
Look at who has bought a new house, car, etc
This sentence will lead men to two conclusions. One conclusion is that one is useless and cannot meet one's wife's material needs; One conclusion is that the wife is a powerful person who loves money rather than love others. This way, the husband will not only be dissatisfied with himself, but also have sufficient reasons to be dissatisfied with his wife. If he talks too much about this, the husband will mistakenly think that his wife is implying something to him, and the marital relationship will become even more distant.
Have the ability to dominate outside.
After a quarrel between husband and wife, the wife who is usually polite and polite to others will go against the norm and make a scene during the argument, saying this sentence to her husband. Perhaps there are many husbands who are cowardly and dare not get angry with others, only daring to lose their temper at home. However, this is also the pain in their character, and wives should not intentionally poke their husbands' scars.
Who is she? What is your relationship?
If a man's phone rings, his wife will unconsciously ask, "Who is it?" If the husband hesitates a bit, he will then ask, "Who is she?" "What is your relationship?" Women have been suspicious since ancient times, which is understandable. They like to browse others' phones, especially their husband's phones and bags, which is also understandable. But the lack of trust between husband and wife that makes him feel can greatly affect their intimate relationship.
Getting along with a husband and wife also requires some skills. Don't think we can just say everything because our relationship is good. Perhaps just because of your harsh words will put your marriage in a desperate situation. In daily life, it is not only important to take care of a man's life, but also to pay attention to his heart. Don't scold him if you want to. If you do, you will unknowingly hurt your man and push him further away.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
