Post Date December, 03 2023
With the sharp increase of social competitiveness, more and more women have the idea that they are tired and can't fight any more. It doesn't matter. Let's find someone to marry. This seems to have become a retreat left by women subconsciously, and marriage has become the best way to get rid of competition and find happiness. A good job search is not as good as a good husband's marriage. The "I love you" that women most want to hear has become the most touching sentence in "The King of Comedy": I raise you.
How to make men willing to "raise" women
Marriage seems to be the universal prescription for women to solve all problems, but it may only be wishful thinking of women. While solving those so-called problems, they will also leave a lot of sequelae. What's more, men are not stupid than women, and their needs are even more than women. How can a woman who has no good conditions herself let men willingly "raise"?
Even if men with good conditions don't want to find a woman with better conditions to be their partner, they should at least find a woman with similar conditions to live together. The reason is simple. Only such a woman can be worthy of herself and bring out face.
Not to mention the natural appearance, a woman must have the same taste and cultivation as a man before she can be watched by that man; The second is talent and learning. What man doesn't want his wife to be a beautiful woman with both talent and beauty? Even if we can't talk about talented women, we should at least have a common topic with ourselves; The last is work. Even if a woman can't earn more than 10000 yuan a month, she must at least have a decent job that can support herself, so that men can accept you. If you only think about "enjoying leisure and avoiding work" all day long, even if it is beautiful, marriage will not be successful.
Marriage is not a safe haven for women
In marriage, no one has to be responsible for anyone all his life. It is his benevolence that a man never abandons a woman. When he feels that he has the utmost benevolence and wants to put women aside, women can only lament that fate is too bad. It is really just a trick of nature, but it is clearly caused by women themselves.
Marriage is not a safe haven for women, but a big boat that can help each other in the same boat. When you get on this boat, you must contribute to the ride of the boat, enjoy the happiness of calm, blue sea and blue sky, and also have to withstand the wind and rain. To make the ship of marriage go faster and more steadily, women must first be a good helmsman. If you want to sit in the bow of the boat and enjoy the scenery, don't blame the people who are struggling to paddle in front of you for their bad temper and poor skills. It is your luck that men don't drive you off the boat without talking and practicing.
Therefore, don't try to use marriage as your safe haven. There are times when the safe haven can't withstand the tsunami, let alone it is not at all. If you want to live a happy life, you should learn to be a good pilot of marriage. It is the wisest choice to take the initiative to steer the ship of marriage.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
