Women may encounter three types of sexual difficulties, and the inability to engage in sexual activity is just one of them

More than 10% of women experience discomfort during sexual activities such as caressing and masturbation before sexual intercourse. Multiple reasons may cause discomfort in the same room - illness, disorders, difficulty in excitement, boredom. In the short term, it spoils a wonderful night; In the long run, it can cause emotional disorders, reduce interest in sex, and even lose sexual desire.

1. The important part of sexual pain during lubrication is caused by insufficient lubrication. When your desire is aroused and ready for insertion, hormones will cause your vagina to produce fluid to allow the penis to smoothly enter and twitch. However, certain reasons prevent this process from occurring, such as hormonal imbalances caused by medication, breastfeeding, or amenorrhea; Not receiving sufficient sexual/sexual stimulation; Psychological disorders caused by painful experiences such as childbirth, etc.

Vaginal lubrication can serve as a temporary solution. From a long-term perspective, you need to treat hormonal imbalances through the regulation of hormones or estrogen. But sometimes sexual discomfort is caused by insufficient preparation before sexual intercourse. In this situation, you need to fully relax, ensure sufficient pre sexual stimulation, and wait for more time before insertion, usually about three times longer than usual.

2. Physiological issues

Pain during sexual intercourse may be a signal of illness. If using lubricants is not helpful, or if pain is accompanied by bleeding, you should seek medical attention.

If you have symptoms of urgency, then you may have a bladder infection. You should urinate before and after sexual intercourse. Doctors will use antibiotics to treat your infection. If you only feel pain in a certain sexual position, it may be because your ovaries are being compressed. The doctor will check the ovaries for inflammation or infection. If the possibility of illness is ruled out, then you only need to change your sexual intercourse posture. Feeling pain when a partner is deeply inserted may be caused by an infection. If you only feel pain at the beginning of sexual intercourse, you may have a vaginal fungal infection. Protective measures should be taken after treatment.

3. Difficulty in insertion

Sometimes you may encounter insertion difficulties. This may be due to a dislike for sexual intercourse, and even worse, it may be due to vaginal spasms. Vaginal spasm is a physiological or psychological response to insertion, which is too intense and causes spasms in the vaginal muscles, making it impossible for external objects to be inserted. People usually consider insertion as the most important symbol of sexual intercourse. Therefore, once encountering difficulties in insertion, one may feel a sense of failure, believing that one cannot fully utilize the abilities bestowed by nature, and feeling guilty for one's unreasonable reactions. Partners may be hit. From the immediate perspective, he suffered a setback; In the long run, he cannot tolerate the rejection he has received.

The fear of insertion can be attributed to the following reasons:

① You may feel uncomfortable during sexual activity, but you force yourself to persist in order to meet your spouse's needs. After several such situations, you will develop expected fear and tension towards insertion Being frightened by certain special events, such as embarrassing vaginal internal examinations, sexual violence, childbirth, etc., your body begins to refuse to cooperate You may not like to accept insertions because it makes you feel too emotionally close between the two of you.