Post Date November, 17 2024
Playful men are more likely to be favored by their girlfriends in love.
Friends who have just entered the workplace know that salary is not about labor efficiency, but about the irreplaceable nature of workers.
There is also a similar pattern in relationships, and the sweetness of emotions does not lie in constant effort, but in the ability to stimulate one's mindset and work.
Compared to good people in love, promiscuous men have a better understanding of their precise positioning and what they can bring to their younger sisters;
In terms of psychological state, they are more open-minded than good people and often stand out;
In pursuit of perfect strategies, they have a better understanding of playing with their sister paper to maximize their own profits
1. The difference in logical thinking between flirtatious men and good people chatting
I just dislike some sales language international conventions in classroom teaching. Due to the fact that sales language international conventions are dead and small talk is alive, sales language international conventions have many pitfalls besides appearing powerful. I prefer to use objective facts to convince people.
Let's talk about the difference between a good old man and a promiscuous man
Beginner's way of thinking in small talk
Initial meeting period: I worked hard to find topics to chat with, intending to please my younger sister.
After understanding: Lost chat destination, upgrade association not immediately.
Old wet machine chat thinking mode
Initial stage: Proficient in expanding topic discussions to gain a sense of connection, structured logical thinking to lead and guide correctly
After understanding: Game entertainment style chat promotes a girl's paper mentality, tempting girls to upgrade and connect
Let's first take a look at an example of chatting to feel the differences between each other:
From the casual conversation, it can be seen that the emotional investment of both parties has already been severely imbalanced.
My girlfriend was originally depressed due to work related issues. And when boys communicate with girls, they also kneel and lick, find ways to solve difficulties, and persuade girls to listen to their own suggestions All we haven't talked about is the key points. In fact, the girl just wants to complain to you about her unsatisfactory emotions at this stage. You just need to listen to her talk, and moderate humor can stimulate the girl's mentality.
2. The Three Key Points of Playboy's Small Talk and Logical Thinking
1. Solve the problem of difficult conversations, shared conversation changes, and no topic
There is a fundamental psychological difference between men and women: men often care more about solving difficulties when communicating, while women are more concerned about communicating and exchanging emotions.
For example:
Looking at this conversation, the girl is mainly talking about her own experiences and feelings (feeling: depressed to death; finally... who knows...).
And the solution for boys is all about dealing with difficult problems (buying immediately if you like, and starting when you see the right one).
Many women feel that chasing after their own boys, boyfriends, and even husbands cannot communicate with themselves at the same frequency. The fundamental difference in logical thinking between these men and women is a key reason.
In sexual communication, when a man subconsciously throws out difficult language, it is very easy to cause the topic discussion to be hastily concluded.
Old wet machine said to you, the topic discussion goes like that!
We can correctly guide a large number of chat topics based on finding relevant topics and discussions from girls, sharing experiences, malignant events, and thoughts from girls.
2. Understand the use of architectural logical thinking, and when it comes to dating, you have gained control. Wait for her to pursue you!
Architecture refers to the potential social media influence and social media relevance throughout the entire process of mutual interaction and communication. The term 'potential' is very important as it is not superficial or verbal, but rather reflects personal behavior and mindset.
Structuring logical thinking in small talk is necessary for both initial and long-term relationships. Here, I will provide many examples for my brothers to experience the effectiveness of small talk architecture.
Back Case:
Female: If you mainly perform well in the past few days, I may show you my cat. (Architecture intrusion)
Man: Alright, what color is the cat at home? (Falling into the structure of a girl)
Negative example:
Female: If you mainly perform well in the past few days, I may show you my cat. (Architecture intrusion)
Man: Ah, no need. I have psychological trauma to cats. I used to have a cat named balabala before (maintaining the structure)
3. The art of enticing the essence of game entertainment spirit, allowing small talk to be inserted with provocative wings, creates a romantic atmosphere
High quality romantic relationships should be easy and enjoyable. If there is a lack of the essence of game entertainment spirit and the ability to work with game entertainment, the relationship will usually become increasingly low and even serious.
A good person usually likes to follow standards, such as when the other party asks to go east, they will go east, and when the other party asks to go west, they will go west. But for gaming entertainment, in many cases, the fun comes from daring to innovate. For example, humor and wit come from accidents to a great extent.
With a playful mindset, improvising competitions in daily communication can bring a lot of joy to the interaction between the two. After all, the most fundamental practical significance of dating is that it's inconvenient for two people to come together more happily.
If you have already seen this, because you are a brother who wants to forget the past and complete their emotions casually. For the person you want to become, there are three difficult questions I want to ask you:
Did you prepare in advance for pain changes?
2. Do you want to be stronger about yourself instead of being inferior in front of women?
Do you have excellent execution skills?
If you have prepared well in advance, want to invest in your own project, and have excellent execution ability, I would like to get to know you like that.
Next, I want to talk to you about some longer-term challenges
The emotions of this period
Going back to everyone's parents' generation, most of them engaged in life events through blind dates and arranged arrangements. However, in this period today, everyone advocates for equality and freedom in love, and all people have the right to control and pursue perfect emotions.
Girls also have this dominance, learning makeup, beauty and skincare, yoga and fitness, working hard, and being valued by their leaders. They discuss their emotional experiences with their girlfriends and pursue the emotions they want to perfect themselves. They understand that buying beautiful clothes, taking beautiful photos, and showcasing their ultimate selves are becoming more likable and beautiful.
And many brothers who have not yet bid farewell to being single have found, while interacting with them, that the girls introduced in detail do not even want to meet you in person, and the girls they get to know online cannot even chat
As soon as she started complaining, the girl became increasingly difficult to pursue. By the way, while others are developing rapidly, you are still standing still and complaining. Whose fault is it?
Women are becoming more and more outstanding, social media coverage is becoming more and more widespread, and all they do is just to find a better man. What actions have you taken at this time?
If time goes back twenty years, perhaps as long as you're not too bad, finding a girlfriend shouldn't be a big problem. Nowadays, there are more men and fewer women in China, and men do not have the upper hand in the marriage and dating sales market. Only by becoming more and more outstanding can you stand out.
Under the rules of that game, the market competition between men is becoming increasingly fierce. If you have no advantages to talk about, you will be quickly eliminated.
However, many brothers, apart from their work, will always brush Tiktok and play games. I don't have any love experience, don't understand how to improve myself, don't value my brand image, completely lack daily life style and career planning, and no teacher to teach you how to pursue girls. I don't even discuss this topic with my brothers
One day, you suddenly touch a girl and realize that she is so beautiful and charming, so you quickly fall in love with her.
If you are preparing to express this love in advance, you suddenly encounter many difficulties:
How do you respond to the next sentence when chatting with her?
I am so sincere, why can't she feel it at all?
I don't want to use any tricks, she's not that kind of girl
Seeking advice on how to catch up with her
They simply did not realize that they had already been out of place with the times, and there was no class between them and girls. Their cognitive abilities, daily life, and logical thinking were completely unmatched with the girls of the new era.
Therefore, please raise your sword and shield to protect your love!
As the saying goes, men are not bad, but women do not like it. This saying actually contains psychological laws behind it. Social psychology research shows that women are more likely to arouse the maternal brilliance of women in their subconscious.
What is a playboy?
The difference between bad here and the traditional definition of bad is significant, and bad here refers to a small bad. These flirtatious men often walk in relationships and control their level, thus being favored by women.
Psychological experts regard this kind of badness favored by women as the highlight of men's demeanor, which does not involve the badness of human nature and the badness often mentioned in social psychology.
From some perspectives, promiscuous men are more likely to grasp a woman's heart and understand their hobbies. They have their own unique wit, and they are brave enough to tease a woman's heart with witty language.
Compared to these traditional and gentle men, they possess many unique styles. For example, they understand when to be gentle and when to be rude. In fact, promiscuous men possess these three levels of allure.
1、 Proficient in guessing the logical thinking of women in emotions
Rather than saying that their bad behavior attracts women, it's more like they understand women's thoughts better. They are good at guessing women's logical thinking in emotions. They are like experienced hunters, and many women have already been seen through in their eyes. When a person's thoughts are exposed, it is very easy for them to fall into their own trap.
2、 Consider women's pursuit of perfection for excitement and novelty
For these promiscuous men, what they dislike the most is their adherence to stereotypes, their courage to break free from the logical thinking limitations of ordinary people, which makes women unable to resist.
People's hearts are filled with impulses to pursue perfection, excitement, and uniqueness, but most of these impulses are bound by reality. However, when a humorous and unpredictable boy appears in front of a woman, it is usually not easy for the woman to refuse because the man can consider her pursuit of perfection for excitement and novelty.
3、 Moderate tolerance
They are all moderately tolerant. Is it also a temptation for women for a group of unrestrained men to present their soft spots at some point in time? They have been taking moderate opportunities to tolerate and stimulate the woman's desire for protection.
So, a large number of promiscuous men are created by mastering the emotions of women and moderately highlighting their own charm. They turn themselves into a sweet and chronic poison, in order to gain the hearts of women.
