Post Date December, 03 2023
If a man tells you that he firmly despises extramarital affairs, it is either because he is young or because he is lying to you. Of course, maybe he is really a master of love and hate, and it is not impossible, although the probability is a little small.
Men don't want to get love in extramarital affairs
Women may pursue the feeling of love all their life. They are emotional animals. But when a man reaches a certain stage, it is difficult to believe in love.
In their life dictionary, they pay more attention to career, fame, status, others' evaluation and their own face. Men don't often say: "Start a career first and then get married. What kind of women can't be found as long as they have money and status?" To fish, you should always have all the bait. Men are always "pragmatic" whether they are dealing with normal marriage or extramarital relationships.
The requirements of society for men create the reality of men. The society has always been more demanding and strict on them than on women. Men have not achieved any socially recognized achievements when they are the oldest, which always frustrates many men. The overwhelming commercial propaganda and slogans in the commercial society, such as what men should have face, what diamonds will last forever, and so on, will put pressure on the men who are shy of money.
But this is a contradiction in itself. A man without achievements may be unable to express his feelings, but a man with achievements will also lose the ability to love. If a man has gone through all kinds of things, walked in the shadows of officialdom and society, and got used to those intrigues and intrigues, trust has become a synonym for foolishness in their dictionary, and tenderness has become another explanation for weakness, they will increasingly lose their ability to love sincerely and express their feelings naturally and relaxed. They also lack this leisure and are not used to releasing their weaknesses to others. They live more carefully and worldly, seemingly beautiful, but actually very bleak.
Therefore, such men are more likely to seek relaxation and catharsis in the process of extramarital affairs, and rarely really love in a broken way. The more powerful men are, the more so. They looked at the woman who was fascinated by herself from top to bottom, just as they looked at a completely transparent creature, and all the ups and downs of emotions were under his control. Looking at such persistent feelings, he may have tenderness and pity in his heart, but it has nothing to do with love. He only pitied himself who had been persistent, and secretly laughed at himself who was so numb now.
Men also have the same attitude when discussing extramarital affairs: you can play, but don't touch the truth, don't destroy life, otherwise it is stupid. Men will take lovers together with each other. As a symbol of status, without affecting the safety, people will make fun of each other and do not want to get love in extramarital affairs. Because love makes people tired and consumes too much energy.
Maybe women always think that the performance of men in extramarital affairs is that they are in love again, but how much do they really invest? Maybe only men who have no career and life burden can take love as a profession. Generally, men are part-time workers, just running errands.
Men rarely refuse women who send them to their door
Sometimes it is an unsolved mystery which man and woman can stick to their loyalty more. Most of the people who ask about marriage online are women who ask about men's cheating. This does not prove that more men cheat and less women cheat. But women are more accustomed to confiding their pain in groups to seek comfort, while men are mostly used to keeping silent.
