Post Date December, 02 2023
Woman, please don't live such a discounted life.
One day, I accompanied my boss to go shopping for a birthday gift. When we sat down with big and small bags for coffee, the female boss asked me, "Don't you want to buy some gifts for your family
I smiled and said, "My parents are very frugal. Only by not spending money recklessly will they think I will live a happy life in the future
The boss looked at me and told her own story:
Do you know? I used to be a person who really liked to worry about the future. I was always worried about my career and wanted to save more money, read more books, and get a higher degree. At the age of 36, I was pregnant with a child, but at that time I got a PhD in economics. I was very nervous about studying, and in order to excel, I worked hard all night. As a result, my child miscarried and I never had a child again. Now I have a lot of money, but I am a generation old I can't see my own child anymore
The words of the female boss shocked me very much.
She also said, "Many people believe that saving can make their lives safer, so they live their current life in a poor and cheap way. In fact, this is a sign of lack of confidence in life. I will not advocate wasting money, but you should know that enjoying health is progress in life
When you omit the enjoyment that should be in life for the future, your life is discounted by 10%. If you sacrifice freedom and family love, your life is discounted by 70%. If you give up your will and love, your life is discounted by 50%. No matter how prosperous your life is, it cannot withstand the discount
In fact, not only money, but also time and energy. When you are fully invested in work and not allocated to family and love, you are not far from losing.
A happy life requires:
1、 When you realize that you no longer blindly like to hang out with a group of people like the wind, start respecting your own wishes and doing what you need to do, start arranging your various plans, planning your direction, and your solitude becomes meaningful.
2、 When faced with many choices, you no longer hesitate, and your mind will quickly flash through three or more necessary reasons for choosing a certain option. With my own independent thinking, I began to learn how to think logically.
3、 As you pay more and more attention to the quality of food in your dietary habits, the idea of a healthy lifestyle comes to mind, insist on eating breakfast and exercising. As the saying goes, leaving the green mountains behind is not afraid of not having firewood to burn.
4、 Value your loved ones, friends, and loved ones. Because these people may not always exist in your life, perhaps in a difficult and lonely night, you may need them just because things are different. You don't need to cheat in front of them, don't forget sincerity.
5、 Make yourself happy and make the people around you happy. Absolutely more valuable than money.
6、 In the face of gains and losses, going and staying, generosity and openness make complex things simple and simple things meaningful.
7、 Don't argue with the elderly or children at any time. The beginning of life is ignorant, and the end of life should be happy.
8、 Set a correct goal for progress and never tire yourself too much at any time, as the value of life will be completely lost.
9、 A confident life, a happy smile, success and happiness go hand in hand. not pleased by external gains, not saddened by personal losses.
