Post Date December, 03 2023
Time is the 'holy medicine' for healing wounds, and it is also a sharp tool for erasing emotions. Decades of marital emotions may experience periods of exhaustion, boredom, indifference, and complete breakdown under the baptism of time. And infidelity is the most common situation that occurs during these periods.
Usually, people are discussing the issue of men's infidelity, but in fact, women are also cheating, and it is inevitable to encounter fatigue. People always talk about men cheating, but in fact, women are also cheating. Moreover, women in a certain age group are the most likely to cheat.
The most likely period of infidelity in marriage
Marriage experts have made a special survey that shows that the relationship between husband and wife is most prone to problems when the average age of the husband is 40 years old and the average age of the wife is 37 years old, and the divorce demography is also quite high.
In fact, many people are surprised that after so many years of marriage, everything that needs to be adjusted has been adjusted. Why would they still cheat? This needs to be analyzed from the following points.
Accumulation of trivial matters in life leads to resentment: In the age group of men aged 40 and women aged 37, it is common for couples to appear together and become estranged. Women are more likely to cheat than men.
Communication barriers between couples: According to a survey, 20% of the total number of divorces are due to poor communication on trivial matters. The fuel, rice, oil, and salt issues accumulated through years of marriage have become the most hurtful weapon.
Time wears away emotions
The first three years of marriage are a period of adjustment, the seventh year is a period of danger, and 10 years later is a period of fatigue. The age of marriage for 40 year old men and 37 year old women is generally around 10 years, and in the first two to three years, everyone is in a period of adjustment and is still tolerant; I knew it was very dangerous in six or seven years, so I had a cautious heart.
After 10 years, everyone feels that the other person is like their left and right hands, thinking that family love has replaced love, so small things that were not a problem in the past will also be brought out to make a fuss. There are many small arguments, which are very hurtful.
In addition, after 10 years of marriage, both the appearance and interpersonal behavior of the couple become significantly different from when they got married. Differences in personality, outlook on life, money, attitude towards educating children, and ways of dealing with stress will all be exposed without reservation during this period, and any of these issues can be enough to paralyze the marriage.
