Post Date December, 03 2023
Men always aspire to be the first man to become the woman they love, which is known as the "virgin complex.". However, in modern times, the virginity complex of men has long been disparaged by many urban women as worthless and returned with scornful sneers. Because, in the eyes of modern women, this is as vulgar as trying to pick your nostrils on a bus. "And this question will no longer provoke her anger. On the contrary, she will see you as the object of her pity.".
In fact, excessive praise for women is a product of male society. In ancient China, after a man and woman performed a couple's ceremony, it was only the next day that they presented the woman's red color to their family that everyone would be happy, and the woman would be officially accepted by the family. Once there was a slight deviation, the woman would be regarded as disloyal and driven back to her family, and the people of her family would also regard it as a great shame and feel unable to see anyone.
"The hymen is only a thin membrane, and the reason why men worship such a membrane is due to their selfish psychology. Most men have a possessive desire, and a woman's hymen will be regarded by them as belonging only to themselves and not being preempted by other men. Only in this way can their psychology be balanced and treated kindly to the woman who belongs only to themselves.".
In addition, excessive nervousness about the hymen is also due to a deep sense of unease hidden in the inner world of men, that is, they fear that if the other person is not a virgin, they may be deeply affected by past sexual experiences, deeply imprinted with the sexual habits of former boyfriends, and become sexually overly mature. And I'm also worried that after a woman has a relationship with a certain man, she will leave traces of that man on her body that will not last for a long time. In other words, what men are worried about is that after a relationship occurs, a woman will become the private "property" of this man, never forgetting that tenderness, and always holding onto him.
Moreover, men cannot tolerate being compared sexually by their girlfriends with their previous boyfriends, which is related to their lack of confidence in sexuality. "Because a man's sexual behavior is largely controlled by emotions and fluctuates with his mental state, once a man experiences distractions such as' maybe she has been in love with a better man than me before 'or' will she feel like I'm awkward ', his body will naturally be influenced by these obsessive beliefs and become unmanageable.". In this way, a man's face will be lost and his ability to be a male will be questioned. So, for men, this is undoubtedly a heavy blow, because it completely negates the existence value of men obsessed with sex. Therefore, men who feel uneasy about this always obsess over their girlfriend's past.
"But if the other person is a virgin, even if she fails during the sexual encounter, it doesn't matter, because there's no need to worry about being compared to her former boyfriend. Any excuse such as" I'm a bit tired tonight "or" I drank a little too much "can be put off.". Therefore, as far as men are concerned, the pursuit of purity lies behind the psychology of women, and in fact, there is also a sense of sexual insecurity and childishness in men. It is not possible to simply equate the virgin complex with the longing for purity.
