Post Date December, 03 2023
Men are wonderful creatures. As we all know, the most important thing for men is face. But have you ever thought about why? Why do we regard face as such an important part of life?
Because we have no ability to admit that we are not strong enough, we are not even willing to admit many things. We don't want to admit that we don't know the way. We don't want to admit that our girlfriend's driving skills are better than ours.
Our reluctance to admit it is only because we are afraid. We are afraid that our vulnerability will be discovered by others, which will make us feel that we are not men.
Some men are always reluctant to admit that they still love their ex-girlfriends because they are afraid of losing if they admit it; Some men are always unwilling to admit that their workplace is not smooth, so they will blame the company, because they are afraid that they will be worthless if they admit it; Some men are always reluctant to admit that they like a girl, because if the other party doesn't like themselves, it will be embarrassing; Some men are always reluctant to admit that they are right, because for many people, a man has as much value as he has.
All these kinds of unwillingness to admit are just our self-protection. We want to protect our small self-esteem. We want to live in a world with self-esteem and let everyone respect us. But do we really want to? Don't our hearts really know that we are not as good as we imagined? Can't you tell if we never admit it?
In fact, we also know that what we don't want to admit, we all know, but we just can't let go of the humble last trace of self-esteem and face our true self frankly.
Now everyone in the world is wearing a mask, which is not shameful, but do you even have to wear a mask to face yourself? Aren't you tired? Women are going to collapse without removing makeup all day. How long can you endure after wearing masks for decades?
We have been waiting for someone to help us take off the mask. But just like women have garbage tests, women will test whether we are qualified men, and we will also test whether you are the one who can help me take off my mask.
Our mask has been worn for too long. We have forgotten how to take it off for a long time, so we are waiting for someone to help us and someone to make us believe wholeheartedly. You may say that this kind of man is very selfish and hates very white eyes. Yes, it's absolutely true. This kind of man is really not pleasing, but have you ever thought about his motives? He is just as afraid of being injured as we are. No one wants to be hurt, even though we know that injury is a necessary process in life, but just like giving birth to a child, we know that it must be painful until the child is born in the north, but we still don't want to hurt!
The person who will never admit is actually very timid, because he dare not talk to his true self or reveal his true self. Although he is timid, he is not ashamed at all, because most people have such elements more or less.
We want to protect ourselves, and we want to be protected. In fact, just like women, our position is different from the task entrusted to us by society. This is why more men are unwilling to admit more things or even love you when they die? Because in his cognitive world, as long as he admits, he will lose and his weakness will be mastered.
So, please give us love, give us these men who look strong in appearance but fragile in heart! Let us know that even if I am not, the world still loves me.
