Post Date November, 16 2024
There are 9 reasons why women refuse sex. Research shows that women have much higher demands for sex than men, and those aggressive men often cause women to develop sexual aversion. Let's take a look at the 9 reasons why women refuse sex.
9 Reasons Women Refuse Sex
1. Feeling like I've gained weight
Once women are not confident in their body shape, they are very likely to refuse sex. At this point, the partner should say more sweet words to her and provide more caresses in body language to help her relax. It should be noted that it is best not to use advice such as "you can lose weight" as encouragement, as it will only make women more disappointed.
2. Physiological period (or before and after)
Most women have a habit of cleanliness, so during the physiological period (or before and after), they are very resistant to sexual activity, mainly because they are afraid that sexual activity can lead to infection.
3. Low sexual desire
Compared to women in their twenties, before menopause, the levels of male hormones in women's bodies decrease by about half, leading to a sudden decrease in sexual desire. Experts suggest that supplementing male hormones appropriately can improve women's libido. Sexual desire directly determines whether a couple's sexual life is satisfactory, and a woman's sexual desire is also a signal. Women with strong sexual desire will make men more proactive in attacking, and the quality of sexual intercourse will also be higher.
4. Vaginal odor leads to complete loss of sexual pleasure
Bacterial vaginitis is often confused with fungal infection. The former is not inflammation, but rather an imbalance of the vaginal microbiota, leading to abnormal pH values and odor. Mild cases can range from ammonia odor to dead fish odor. Both diseases may also occur simultaneously. The pungent odor does not hesitate to bring any favor to women. Women are already fantastical animals, and even sexual intercourse hopes to be carried out in a romantic environment. Vaginal odors can make women lose all their sexual interest.
5. Unable to satisfy orgasm
A woman's inability to achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse is a major loss to the emotional relationship between the couple. If a woman fails to achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse, it can make her feel that she has not been treated fairly and will also feedback this emotion to her partner. Men also feel that they cannot satisfy the woman and experience frustration. This frustration, which cannot be resolved for a long time, can make the sexual life of the couple even colder.
6. Urine leakage during sexual intercourse
For the issue of urine leakage during sexual intercourse, experts suggest not drinking water a few hours before sex; Urination before sexual intercourse; Backward and lateral recumbent sexual positions can help reduce the pressure on the female's bladder and urethra.
7. Insufficient foreplay and excessive movement
The survey results found that 30% of women have recently experienced mild to moderate sexual pain. In addition to insufficient foreplay and excessive sexual activity, the main cause is chronic genital pain syndrome, where patients experience burning, stabbing, or knife like pain in the genital area. And this type of sexual intercourse does not bring pleasure to women, but rather inner fear and pain. In addition, excessive movements can cause damage to women's vagina and may also trigger various gynecological diseases.
8. Vaginal dryness and friction pain
Women's vaginal dryness during sexual intercourse can cause pain in their vagina due to friction, and men may not experience smooth thrusting. Prolonged friction can also cause damage to the vagina.
9. During pregnancy
More than 90% of women say that they feel no longer sexy and charming during pregnancy, and they strongly reject couples seeing their bodies. At this point, the husband should comfort his wife more and let her know that she is still charming in your eyes. You can also switch to a sexual position that does not expose your body, such as a backward position.
Perfect sex is achieved through the cooperation of both parties. So when a woman refuses sex, the man must provide understanding and help.
