Post Date December, 03 2023
When God created man, he divided man into two kinds, men and women. Men are endowed with strength, courage and strength. Women are endowed with beauty, tenderness and care. Men are born to protect women, and women are born to need men's care. After thousands of years of history, it still remains the same. In a woman's heart, a man's shoulder is the most reliable harbor.
Now we can also see a phenomenon on the street. When shopping, if a couple enters, most of them are women holding men's hands tightly. However, it is rarely seen that men take the initiative to enter with women's hands. Of course, there are gender reasons, but more importantly, men and women have different perspectives on thinking, and their ideas are naturally different. In marriage, only by mutual understanding can both parties maintain a good marriage and go on happily. Let's take a look at the differences between men and women in terms of psychological thinking.
Children like to cuddle up with adults and act coquettishly, which is a manifestation of animal nature. With the growth of age, people gradually mature in rationality, and the primitive habits of animals gradually degenerate and hide behind rationality. When a woman is shy or not good at expressing her feelings in words, she is used to using the most primitive and straightforward method of body contact as a means of conveying her feelings. In this sense, women and children are more animalistic than men.
From a psychological point of view, women attach more importance to feelings, and their thinking is also based on feelings, and their senses are more sensitive than men, especially the sense of touch. Therefore, women are more accustomed to using tactile feeling to replace language expression. When dating a girlfriend, people should not only listen to what she says with their ears, but also see what she does with their eyes. Only in this way can we have a more accurate insight into the true intention of her heart.
Body linguistics experts have found that everyone has a psychological "vigilance", that is, a sense of "sphere of influence". Everyone is self-centered and expands around to form an egg-shaped psychological defense space. Once other people invade, it will cause him or her to be nervous, alert and resistant. The stranger people are, the farther away they are from each other, the greater the distance between their bodies. On the contrary, the psychological defense space distance will gradually narrow. For example, between normal couples, the relationship between parents and children is the most intimate, so the psychological distance between them can be reduced to zero, that is, close physical contact.
Therefore, if your female partner always likes to hold your hand or touch your body when walking, it means that the psychological distance between her and you has been greatly shortened, and she doesn't care if you invade her "sphere of influence".
Some men don't understand women's way of expressing closeness. When their girlfriend's body is close to him, they will be elated, mistaking her for having a physical desire for themselves, and he may be disappointed. When a woman touches a man's body, it is not only physical contact, but also spiritual and psychological closeness. She may just show her good feeling and closeness to you. That's all. Don't fantasize.
