Why do women in love have strange psychology? Do you understand the thoughts of these women

There are many strange psychology in women, and in love, women's strange psychology is more likely to be displayed one by one. At this time, men with low skills should pay attention, as if you are not careful, you will provoke her.

Women's psychology

Some women have a mentality that if a man doesn't go shopping with them, it means he doesn't love him. In fact, for men, they may not necessarily express their love through this way. If a woman always has this logic, then the man will be driven crazy one day. So what is the psychology of women doing this?

Women always draw an equal sign between shopping and love: to judge how much patience a man has with her, it usually depends on how long he is willing to accompany them on the streets.

Women see shopping as a matter of affection. Little did men know that shopping can lead to a "health crisis".

A researcher in the UK has stated that men and women should not spend more than 72 minutes shopping together. Otherwise, there will often be a big argument next.

This can explain why dating and shopping between couples usually ends up in a scene of displeasure!

Women's love of shopping and men's annoyance of shopping are both innate biological attributes.

The joy of women's shopping lies in the process, while the joy of men's shopping lies in the outcome.

The shopping process of women is also a 'cognitive' process. During this process, women enjoy the pleasure of learning more new things. But women's shopping is also blind and impulsive. This is because when faced with a wide variety of goods, people will experience a "psychological crowding feeling", which hinders rational consciousness and leads to irrational consumption. In shopping spaces with relatively few products, women's shopping psychology will be more rational. So, when shopping, it is important to learn to avoid "psychological crowding" and temporarily detach oneself from the previous shopping environment. After ten minutes, one can make reasonable judgments.

Men's shopping mentality is completely different: their shopping process is a process of directly obtaining results. Psychologically, men's shopping psychology is referred to as' hunting ', which is a process of directly acquiring prey.

The moment of obtaining prey during the hunting process is the most enjoyable, and the previous process is even agonizing for men.

Psychologists have proposed that the process of women shopping is a process of promoting health, and during this process, both their mood and body perform well. On the contrary, the longer a man goes shopping, the poorer their health status, leading to negative emotions and physical indicators. It is reasonable that men do not like to go shopping with women. Women should not always force their husbands to accompany them shopping.

If my husband doesn't accompany me shopping, he will say that he doesn't love me and it's one-sided. For women, they are born with a unique sense of beauty, so they hope to showcase their charm during the shopping process. A woman who often nags in her husband's ear about whether shopping is a matter of love for herself is likely to push a man up the mountain, ultimately leading to disharmony in the family.

Women's Strange Psychology in Love

1. Women often have strange sadistic tendencies

Women in love have a sadistic consciousness, such as deliberately arriving late or not keeping appointments when dating their partner, causing the long-awaited partner to be anxious, agitated, confused, worried, and even suffering, in order to obtain the pleasure of her boyfriend's hard work for her.

In love, this kind of slight and occasional "sadism" is also an indispensable "condiment". Just like Chili sauce and paste, an appropriate amount of Chili sauce and paste can make meals appetizing, but frequent and excessive sadism is a kind of abnormal psychology, which is absolutely undesirable.

2. Women like to use fake intentions to divert their true feelings

When women fall in love, they often hope their boyfriend to say sweet words such as "dear", "I am lonely without you with me", "I can never leave you", and so on. However, men rarely understand this.

Because of this, girls consciously become friendly and intimate with other men in front of their boyfriends, attempting to provoke their jealousy and test their sincerity. However, in reality, it often backfires. Because most men believe in women's "empathy" and voluntarily withdraw from their relationship, leading to the end of a beautiful relationship between both parties.

3. Women have a strong jealousy mentality

A woman is very sensitive to people or things around her, especially in love. She constantly compares herself with others and worries in her mind that her value will not be recognized by them, leading to jealousy, which sometimes makes it impossible for her to be liberated. Jealousy is harmful as it not only harms others but also affects one's physical and mental health.

This peculiar psychology of women is actually a self-protection strategy. Of course, sometimes it is also the true inner expression of women. Men master the abnormal love psychology of women in love, carefully consider and truly understand, which will help to achieve success in love.

4. Women like to speak ironically, men should listen in reverse

The way women express their desires during the love process is generally implicit, tactful, and sometimes even reverse. When she says' no ', she often feels' good but willing' in her heart. When I asked my girlfriend to go to the movie, my boyfriend had to buy tickets, but she said no, so he didn't go. If he waited for her to buy, then the movie would definitely not be a success.

After reading the introduction by the editor of Rebirth Fate, I believe everyone has a further understanding of women's love psychology. A solid foundation in love is a necessary condition for a happy marriage. As one of the protagonists in love, you should pay attention to some taboos during the love process in order to reap happiness.