Newly married couples have the strongest sexual desire and the most frequent sexual activity within a month after marriage. At this time, most grooms have obvious characteristics: strong sexual desire, fast ejaculation, and short sexual life process. Because female sexual arousal is slower than male, it usually takes 5 to 15 minutes or even longer from intercourse to orgasm. As a result, most brides cannot reach orgasm during sexual intercourse.
So, how can newlyweds have a harmonious sexual life during their honeymoon?
For men who have experienced sexual activity for the first time, their sexual impulses are like a storm, coming and going quickly, making it difficult to control themselves. Often it ends in a few minutes or even one or two, and the bride has not yet entered the state. Generally speaking, a man should pay attention to strengthening the woman's sexual induction before sexual intercourse, and try to delay ejaculation as much as possible during sexual intercourse; The woman focuses on reducing mental burden, actively participating and cooperating. I believe that after a period of practice and exploration, most women will achieve orgasm and both parties will gradually adapt to achieve harmony.
It is normal for women to not reach orgasm within one or two years after marriage. With a harmonious sexual life between spouses and proficient sexual skills, one can develop the highest realm of the most beautiful sexual life. Women's desire for sexual activity significantly increases after achieving orgasm. The peak period of male sexual ability is around the age of twenty, and has been declining since then. No wonder some sexologists suggest that from the perspective of sexual ability and desire, marriage between a 20 year old man and a 30 year old woman is considered a sexual union.
In the past decade, people's sexual attitudes have gradually changed, from rejecting sex to accepting sex, with a more significant change in women's attitudes. So the experience of women enjoying orgasm is clearly ahead of schedule. In some open-minded women, there is no such thing as a developmental process and they can enjoy orgasm on their wedding night. So, women who do not climax during their wedding are mostly temporary normal phenomena, so there is no need to worry too much.