Post Date November, 17 2024
80% of men have a virgin complex. If their wife is not a virgin, it can bring some psychological shadow to them, and even lead to sexual aversion, which affects the relationship between husband and wife. Why do men have a virgin complex.
Why do men have a virgin complex?
Most men have a strong possessive desire, hoping that their body and heart belong entirely to them. If you have sexual relations with someone else, even if the man has accepted this woman, there will be a shadow that cannot be released. In addition, successful men in general have a strong desire to conquer, and if they want to find the perfect woman and conquer them, they will not regret it.
Women are indispensable in the world of men. Even for a man who is extremely successful in his career, his perfection and prestige still require a beautiful woman to set them off. So, this kind of man can't help but yearn for a woman who completely and completely belongs to him, both physically and mentally.
How to overcome the virgin complex?
1. To understand the essence of things
Male friends must recognize the essence, in fact, what they care about is not just a layer of membrane, but the memories of their sexual experiences with others that exist in their minds. Men may think that their love is not perfect, and the most important thing women give men is the hymen. Indeed, virgins are rare, and a body that pays attention to emotions is also natural, without value, and no one is responsible for the unknown and future.
2. Recognizing one's own shortcomings
If a man feels that a virgin is not perfect, he should look at his own shortcomings and see if he has any other shortcomings. If you can't free yourself from pressure, it's best to accept all regrets openly and focus on enjoying happiness.
3. Understand tolerance and cherish each other
It's not easy for two people to be together, not only to love each other, but also to tolerate the past and weaknesses. Our life continues to grow, and it doesn't matter what kind of experience we have. Only through various experiences can we cherish and have the right to happiness. Male friends know that happiness in marriage is more important than the hymen.
4. To prove her love for herself
When men lack confidence, they mainly know that after having romantic experience, they choose to be with you, which indicates that you are also better than their previous boyfriends. Sex cannot be used to measure the intensity of emotions, and one must learn to downplay the proportion in romantic relationships.
