Post Date December, 03 2023
Everyone has a love of beauty. The woman who becomes a wife is still the aesthetic object of her husband. If she buries herself in being a housewife and turns herself into a dirty, yellow faced woman, losing all her charm, the man will surely forget your dedication, and sooner or later, his eyes will shift to the other person's wife.
My cousin's aunt is an ordinary looking woman who has lived with her husband for 10 years. Her husband's eyes often drip on other people's wives. Last month, my cousin came to my house to play and told me that her aunt had recently had two extramarital affairs: one man's wife was at least six years younger than this aunt, and the other's wife was also charming, but both men secretly fell in love with this aunt. It's really puzzling.
"My cousin said, 'A wife is someone else's good friend.'". This reminds me of two stories:
In Chernychevsky's novel "What to Do", there is a Russian lady who believes that women have become wives and become unkempt and disheveled at home. She also becomes vulgar when speaking, exposing all ugliness to her husband; When going out, they must deliberately and meticulously decorate themselves. They are also polite in front of other men, speak with great discretion, and smile and smile, all of which leave a deep impression on people. No wonder men say "their wives are good.". Finally, she realized the Zen trick and separated from her husband from the day of her marriage. When a husband comes, he must knock on the door, and then patiently wait outside for half an hour. After she has been groomed and powdered, he is allowed to meet her. When the husband sees her, he always feels fresh as if he sees someone else's wife!
In "Liaozhai", there is also an article called "Hengniang", which tells of a fox spirit who teaches an abandoned woman to dress up in various ways every day. Every time she meets her husband in the future, she will leave a different fresh impression on her husband who likes to hold someone else's wife. So, in the end, those concubines became "ugly wives of their own families," and the abandoned woman turned into "beautiful women of others' families," which satisfied her foolish husband's appetite. Therefore, the couple restored the friendship between Qin and Jin.
Everyone has a love of beauty. A woman who has become a wife is still the aesthetic object of her husband. If she buries herself as a slave to the family and turns herself into a dirty, yellow faced woman, losing all her charm, the man will surely forget your dedication, and sooner or later, his eyes will shift to the other person's wife. Like the aunt mentioned earlier, her husband went out to do business and made some money, so he found a 20-year-old lady to "spend money for him" outside. She was almost 40 years old, and she was once ashamed and very inferiority complex. But then she finally realized that a 20 year old girl is just a flower without fragrance, nothing more than young and beautiful, and the most advantageous weapon at her age is mature charm, so she can finally win the game.
