Post Date December, 02 2023
Why men always regret marriage reflects that male friends are somewhat rogue and disappointed about marriage. Even so, it is necessary to master and understand the reasons why the elderly regret marriage to help men eliminate the psychological shadow and thus enhance the relationship between husband and wife. So why do men regret marriage. This should start from the physiological factors of men.
Men are animals advocating freedom. When freedom collides with marriage, they are always used to asking for freedom from marriage rather than responsibility for freedom. In my opinion, this is exactly the essential difference between good men and ordinary men. Real good men will take the initiative to take responsibility for freedom. From the first day of marriage, they will clean up their youthful frivolity and crazy playfulness. They know their burdens and responsibilities. They will be willing to sacrifice their original freedom for the happiness of their lovers and family.
First, the independent space is getting smaller and smaller. When men are unhappy, they like to find a quiet place to drink some wine or smoke two cigarettes. But women are different. When women are unhappy, they like to find something to do, eat snacks, go shopping and talk to others. In short, women often deal with unhappiness in completely different ways from men. Because of this, men and women have a space conflict after marriage. The more unhappy men want to be alone for a while, the more women like to nag in their ears, even jealous and clinging to men.
Second, there is less and less time available
I often hear many married men complain about how long they haven't gone to the teahouse to play cards, how long they haven't settled down to read a book, and sometimes they haven't even had time to play football. Their complaints are not caused by comparing with women. They also know that the wife in the family is harder than them, but they always think of the natural and unrestrained before marriage. Men are born to be restless animals and like to play outside when they have time. Therefore, their requirements for time are very different from those of women. The time required by men is pure and is not disturbed by anything outside, It is the whole time that we can get together for most of the day. After marriage, I have a wife and children to accompany, and there are seven aunts and eight aunts on both sides, who come to visit me, ask you to do something, and so on. All these things I didn't have before come.
Third, there are fewer and fewer things to do
A friend once told me that I really regret getting married now. I chased M (his wife) so hard in those years. I was stupid. I left myself a free body and didn't want to go to find such a woman in charge of me. Now, I can't smoke any more. I don't want to go back to my room to sleep without smoking a cigarette. I can't drink more than three ounces. Mahjong is only allowed once a month. The most troublesome thing is that I can't chat with any woman alone for more than three sentences. If I exceed this number, she thinks I'm interested in other people. When I return home, I should not ask. I can't sleep at night too early. I want to watch TV for a while. I can't turn my voice to the minimum. I have to wear headphones.
