In life, it is inevitable to encounter some female friends who complain that they are quite beautiful and pay attention to their clothing and appearance. It can be said that they are also quite prominent in the crowd, but why do they encounter men who are not their favorite and cannot attract the attention of their male god. I believe these female friends are quite distressed. Their external conditions are quite favorable, but why can't they attract men's attention? It must be because you haven't done some small details well, which has caused men to shrink back and pursue you. Let's understand the bottom line of these small details together.
Why can't you attract men's attention
1: High heels are covered in scars
I believe everyone has experienced situations where the heel gets stuck in the groove when wearing high heels. If there are only slight scratches, it's okay. Some high heels have materials that can make the entire heel leather look unsightly.
In fact, the scars on the heel of the shoe are even more obvious than you think. If you just leave it like this, it will give people a feeling of being a "messy woman" from behind. The scars on the heel can be repaired in just a few minutes by taking them to the shoe repair shop. Don't just walk outside wearing a heel full of scars like this.
In addition, the wear and tear of the heel is also a noticeable area. If the wear is severe enough to expose the metal, it is easy to make a unique sound when walking. It is best to send it for repair as soon as possible.
2: Finger hair trimming
Fingers are the most noticeable part, so the easy to overlook "finger hair" treatment is also quite important. It can be treated with a razor after applying the shaving lotion. If it is pulled, it is easy to cause hair follicle problems, which needs special attention.
3: Nail fracture defect
As mentioned above, the finger is the most easily noticed part, especially for girls who have nails or nail polish. If your nails are broken or nail polish falls off, and you notice that it has not been improved, this behavior will also make others think you are slovenly.
In order to maintain your best condition, please develop the habit of taking care of your nails whenever you have time. Recently, there are portable nail care oils available on the market that can protect your nails and skin. You can also try them!
4: The bag is in a mess
If the bag is in a mess, it is not only easy to lose things, but also easy to give others a negative impression that your home should also be messy or dirty. If small items are placed separately in a small bag, they will not be messy, while wallets, makeup bags, and handbags can be clearly displayed by placing them horizontally. If you use the same bag for several consecutive days, it is easy to put many unnecessary things inside, so regularly changing the bag is also a good method.
Men also pay more attention to Table manners when eating than we think, from which we can roughly judge the upbringing and living habits. Some even become disliked by the etiquette during meals.
1: Poor posture
It's definitely not good to have a hunchback or elbows on the table, but you should also pay attention to invisible feet when sitting. Even standing in the dressing room can attract attention.
2: Touch your hair
If you fiddle with your hair or curl your head and tail while eating, it may look unclean. Please stop doing this.
3: Squirrel style eating method
Please don't fill your mouth with food until your cheeks bulge. This becomes like a squirrel. Also, speaking with food in your mouth is also NG.
4: Every dish needs to be photographed
Men do not have the habit of "taking pictures of food". Although you can understand the feeling of wanting to use it on SNS, try to avoid it when working with men.
5: Inserting food or pointing at something with chopsticks
Pointing at someone with chopsticks is impolite, just like pointing at someone with your fingers can make them feel unhappy, so please don't do this. Additionally, using chopsticks to insert food has been a taboo since the past. Please remember!
Summary: Do female friends pay attention to these small details in their daily lives? Perhaps some people may feel that these small details are not a big deal, and many men do not care about them. As long as they are good enough to win their honor, it is enough. Perhaps some men do not care, indicating that they also have these situations, However, some men feel that these small details can reflect a person's attitude towards life. If they don't fit in with them, it's definitely not feasible. These small details are also some aspects of women's consideration. If women have these bad habits, they should try to break them.