Post Date December, 03 2023
First of all, correct the definition of 'bad woman'. The term 'bad woman' here does not refer to the traditional sense of being bad. The term 'bad' here is definitely not a derogatory term. Bad women always have a gorgeous appearance and a strong heart, which can captivate men. Bad women always play tricks to make men willingly fall under the pomegranate skirt.
One of the "bad" women is scheming and playing tricks: making men willing to fight or suffer, difficult to part with.
The female protagonist Du Mei in the once sensational TV series "Passionate" is such a woman who likes to play tricks and tricks in love. She invited her beloved boyfriend to dance at the ballroom, and when he asked her permission and was invited by his ex girlfriend to dance on the dance floor, her love suddenly turned into jealousy. So Xiaoshi schemed to invite a stranger man to dance and deliberately appeared very intimate, hoping to stimulate and retaliate against her boyfriend. However, her boyfriend was not stimulated, and she herself was first stimulated and left in a fit of anger, causing her boyfriend to search for him for a while.
As a "bad" woman, Du Mei's move has several intentions: firstly, she is really jealous and angry because she loves her deeply and cannot tolerate her boyfriend's slightest distraction; Secondly, she wants to test whether her boyfriend will be eager to pursue her after she leaves without saying goodbye. If she comes to pursue her, it proves that her boyfriend cares about her love. Perhaps when she leaves the dance hall, she also knows that this is a small adventure, but she still needs to try; Thirdly, she wants to try how much patience her boyfriend has with her. Even if I get angry, even if I close the door and don't let you enter the house near me, how much patience do you have to come through the door to "persuade" me and "flower" me?
Generally, men who are slightly smarter can discern or pierce through the cute "tricks" of women. Saying she is cute is because women show off a thousand different styles and tricks in front of you for the same purpose: to see if you truly love her? By delving deeper into this goal, the problem becomes clear: she deeply loves you.
It is precisely because of this that such scheming "bad" women tirelessly engage in countless details of life, countless words, expressions, postures, etc. to provoke you to pay attention to them all the time, in order to achieve the goal of deep communication with each other. This process itself is often a slide for men to fall into the arms of women, a magnetic field for women to attract men, and a lever for "bad" women to be attractive. Because this type of woman knows how to stimulate men's "pursuit desire".
The 'bad' woman who dares to love and hate is the real woman
The second type of "bad" woman: daring to love and hate: making men intoxicated and crying in heaven and earth.
Tolstoy's Anna Karenina is a typical 'bad' woman. Saying her 'bad' is because as a married woman and mother of children, she falls in love with a young man named Wolensky and becomes a rebellious woman who betrays her family. However, from a woman's perspective, she is a true woman. Because her husband did not love her as a true woman, she is a virtual symbol in this marriage amidst the seemingly mortal love.
The reason why Anna captivated Wolensky was because she dared to love and hate. In order to reflect the value of women's love, she disregarded everything and broke through the constraints and barriers of various patriarchal rituals at that time. She constantly emitted temptations in front of Wolensky and sincerely and persistently fulfilled these temptations into fearless love.
From a human perspective, although Anna betrayed her family, she fundamentally embodies the beauty of women: charming yet sincere, eager yet elegant. Although she brings you many troubles, she gives you more love without impurities and dedication without looking back.
In today's 21st century, there are still many women like Anna in real life. Once they find the feeling of love, they go straight to the theme regardless of anything, capturing men with their temperament and body and mind, and seeking the value of women from men. This kind of woman has love for bones, strength, and stimulation. This kind of gentle and bony woman can make men lose their soul, even if it's just a process, men are willing to accompany because it's precisely this kind of woman's "bad" that makes men understand what a true woman is.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
