Post Date December, 02 2023
Perhaps you have noticed that almost all the female partners around you have already entered the palace of marriage. Even if they are not married, they have been in love for a long time, but only you are still alone. In love, they broke up within a few days due to various issues. Have you ever thought about why this is? Moreover, as leftover women who are determined to marry themselves out, what should we do to attract men for a long time, so that they cannot leave us and go on with us?
1. Leave space for each other
The saying 'farewell is better than new love' is not only suitable for couples, but also for those of you who are in a romantic period. As the saying goes, "A little farewell is better than a new marriage." Psychologically speaking, this is due to artificially creating distance, which gives each other a fresh and evergreen image in their minds. A benign effect has been formed, in a sense, without distance, there is no freedom, without distance, there is no attraction, and the spacing of time and space often increases the intensity of love. So, don't think that when in love, it's important to stick tightly together and leave some space for each other. Instead, it's easier to attract each other and make them feel very comfortable with you.
2. Pay attention to dressing up oneself
There is a saying that goes, 'Women are the ones who please themselves.'. Of course, the love of beauty is human nature, regardless of gender. For men and women in relationships, it is important to pay attention to embellishing oneself, and it is not necessary to dress up beautifully. But make sure to keep it clean and tidy, giving him a bright feeling in front of him. Make him feel that you have a different style, rather than seeing you the same every few days. A woman with a lively appearance will give a man more of a feeling of wanting to explore the truth. So, it's best to put in some effort on your clothes to make yourself more unique and captivating. Due to physiological reasons between men and women, men have a longer period of charm than women, which makes it even more necessary for us to decorate ourselves in appearance. No one can have a permanent red forehead, but "although innate beauty may be lost, artificial beauty is sufficient compensation". Proper light makeup and clothing, coupled with dignified and elegant, deep and generous, still give people a sense of brilliance. Although there is a saying about innate beauty in temperament, it is more about nurture.
3. Having a sense of humor
A man's humor is what makes him more attractive to women. Similarly, women have a sense of humor and are more likely to attract men. Humor is a symbol of perseverance, calmness, wisdom, and ability. Any woman with a sense of humor is more likely to attract men's attention. This will make him feel that you are not a reserved person or a stiff person. On the contrary, being with you can be very relaxed and joyful. So, it's better to cultivate your sense of humor. Of course, it's also important to pay attention to humor and not go too far.
4. Able to handle independently
Although, men hope that women can be more submissive. But many times, they prefer women to be independent rather than needing them to solve everything. So, we need to cultivate our ability to be independent and solve some problems independently even when he is not around. Independent women are also more likely to be favored and admired by men. Compared to soft women, they have a more distinctive flavor. Of course, independence is manifested in many aspects, not just in self-care in daily life. There are also some issues that require us to have the ability to handle independently.
5. Maintain a sense of mystery
Men want to explore the mystery that women possess. So, if we want to attract his attention for a long time, we also need to possess a sense of mystery. Only by maintaining mystery can he feel unable to see through at once, and instead stimulate his desire to explore even more. There are many ways for women to maintain a sense of mystery, but the key is how to properly attract them, which requires us to carefully consider. Of course, as time goes by, our sense of mystery will be peeled off layer by layer. And when we get along, we need to rebuild a new sense of mystery, keep ourselves fresh and captivate.
