After getting married, the two of them switched from a romantic life to a busy married life. The most important thing in marriage is loyalty, but many people are unable to do it, unable to resist external temptations, and ultimately cheat. Men have become the main force of infidelity, and of course, there are also women. Overall, there are more men. So, why are men usually the ones who cheat in sexual relationships?
1. Loss of freshness
At the beginning of a romantic relationship, you were seen as a noble goddess by him, with many advantages that he couldn't love enough. Having been in love for a long time and entering the palace of marriage, shortcomings gradually emerge, and after facing someone for a long time, losing freshness, one cannot resist the temptation of the outside world and chooses the path of cheating. There is a saying that makes perfect sense. After eating delicacies from mountains and seas for a long time, I also want to try the side dishes on the roadside. In fact, this kind of behavior is irresponsible. If everyone cheats because they have no fresh feelings, where does the stability of marriage start? This is clearly a matter of character.
2. Escape from life
Some people live a happier life, while others work harder and struggle to make a living every day. In addition, there are many trivial matters in the family, which makes people feel headache at the thought of it. In order to escape this unpleasant life, some men have thrown themselves into someone else's gentle hometown and betrayed their wives. If it is for this reason that the infidelity is not a good outcome, because changing a woman will not change the current situation of life, and temporary evasion cannot solve the problem. When the man and his infidelity partner fall into trivial life again, they will cheat again.
3. Frequent arguments
It is very normal for couples to have conflicts, after all, their upper and lower teeth often fight. However, choosing to love others due to arguments is extremely irresponsible behavior. There are conflicts between husband and wife, and they should focus on resolving them. If they just avoid them, it will make both of them very tired. Some couples choose to use cold war to force each other to commit crimes, which is a very foolish way of communication. If there is a conflict, it must be resolved in a timely manner, rather than choosing to cheat to avoid it. There is no doubt that the cheating party has made a mistake, but the other party also has a certain responsibility. Frequent arguments can cause a sharp depletion of emotions, and it is also a matter of time before they fall apart.
The above are the reasons for male infidelity. A man's infidelity is wrong, and there is no way to explain or justify it for him. However, problems in marriage are a matter of two people, and women should also look for reasons from themselves. It is important to carefully consider whether men should be forgiven for cheating and not act impulsively.