In life, there is a kind of man who looks very rough and crazy, and looks not easy to be offended. But when they meet women, they are more shy than children, and even blush. This is more or less confusing. Today, Xiaobian will let male experts reveal why men are shy in front of women.
Men's shyness often happens in front of people, especially women. This is because men often get rid of themselves and observe themselves from the outside world. In other words, what they often consider is: what will others think of me? What will she think of me? Women tend to easily enter the self-centered emotional world, revel in it, and forget about themselves when they are happy or sad. For example, when the husband walks in the park with his pregnant wife, the wife often looks proud, and she seems to be bragging to others that she is going to be a real mother. Her joy is directly expressed without disguise. Men who are husbands are not. When others glance at them intentionally or unintentionally, they will feel embarrassed, because he guesses that they will think that their wife's belly is ugly and that it is their own. The man's joy is replaced by this kind of worry, which is expressed as inexplicable "embarrassment".
The second reason why men tend to be shy in front of women is that they try hard to make women feel good about themselves, at least not to be looked down upon by them. Therefore, when women pay attention to them, they will panic and think that they have something to laugh at, so they can't help showing shame. Leaders who understand the psychology of men sometimes deliberately insert several women into a group of men when assigning work, so men will do much better than before. This is probably a leadership art.
In addition, there is a phenomenon that some young men feel flushed and heartbeat when they want to express their hidden love to the girl, but they are embarrassed to say it. Why is this? One of the important reasons is that they are worried: "In case she refuses..." At this moment, the young man will inevitably review the process of contact between the two people. If the answer is positive and positive, it indicates that the time is close to maturity. They should not hesitate to express their wishes directly or indirectly to the girl.
Xiaobian believes that men can be bigger, but sometimes they should be shy, because shyness will increase the impression of others on you. And modest shyness can also show your personal charm. However, Xiaobian does not recommend that men be too shy, otherwise they will be cowardly.