Who made women turn cold and indifferent? These 5 personality life psychological factors are crucial

Every human life is inseparable from two major events: diet and sex. One is about life, and the other is about sex. The question is, not eating, is sex optional? According to a survey, there are many girls who experience sexual apathy in their daily lives. Why do women become sexually indifferent? Today, we will analyze the root cause of the problem layer by layer for you.

What makes women's libido cold?

1. Is your sexual desire consistently low?

In clinical practice, many female patients will tell doctors that their sexual desire is good in the early years after marriage, but later they become less and less interested in sex. Experts say that although they have cold and low libido, they can "passively" complete sexual activity when their spouse requests it, and there is also a possibility of sexual arousal (vaginal wetting). Experts remind that if you have always been a cold beauty, then you should ask a doctor to check your sex hormone levels.

2. Is the lack of sexual desire due to a lack of beautiful sexual experiences?

Sex is a beautiful thing that can bring people a joyful experience. This joyful feeling comes from two aspects: one is physical pleasure, and the other is psychological pleasure. Many women who are sexually indifferent do not feel the beauty of sex, and sex even disgusts them.

Experts say that for women who lack a good sexual experience, it is mostly caused by men's lack of consideration or even rude behavior during sexual intercourse. If a man goes his own way in sexual relationships, becomes impatient beforehand and falls asleep afterwards, forming a pattern, the woman will fall into deep disappointment. Therefore, it is necessary for women to tell their sexual partners where their sensitive areas are and what they need. Both parties should actively explore the joy of sexual life in order to have a wonderful experience and ignite their sexual desire.

3. Do you think your partner is no longer attractive?

Experts say that both men and women need sex and love, and for women, it is often necessary to first feel "love" before accepting the other person to enjoy sex. So, the strength of a woman's libido largely depends on her feelings towards her sexual partner. If both parties become indifferent or find him unattractive, women will naturally not have much "sexual interest". If the relationship is still good, but sexual life becomes monotonous and tedious, then it is necessary to inject more vitality into the intimate relationship between both parties.

4. Have you been experiencing a lack of sexual desire lately and haven't had sex for a while?

For many women, the strength of their sexual desire depends on opportunities, with fewer opportunities and fewer aspirations. Or rather, if the husband takes the initiative to ask for less, he gradually stops thinking about these things. However, if women are proactive and active in sexual activity, their libido will also increase.

Experts say that another situation is that after becoming a mother, women may devote all their energy to their children. In addition, during lactation, prolactin levels increase, resulting in a relatively reduced demand for sex. So, many men may wonder why their wives don't really want to have sex after giving birth. If men can share the burden of raising children with their wives and give them more care and consideration, then wives will not have "no energy" for sex after giving birth.

5. Can worries and menopausal symptoms affect sexual desire?

Discomforts such as children's studies, their own work, and interpersonal relationships will definitely cause people to temporarily lose their "sexual interest". If you haven't regained your "sexual interest" after a few weeks, you should consult a doctor.

Experts say that another common phenomenon is that women's sexual desire changes after menopause, and most people feel that their sexual desire decreases. This is mainly due to a decrease in hormone levels, vaginal dryness, atrophy, and other causes of sexual pain and discomfort. It is recommended to use hormone replacement therapy with the lowest effective dose to improve menopausal symptoms. In addition, in clinical practice, doctors also use "Wei Sao" (a drug with estrogen, progesterone, and androgen activity) to improve patients' low libido.