Post Date December, 03 2023
In fact, women need not be so passive. Women should also master sex life. Your husband also needs to respect your choice.
Tell your husband about your "sexual cycle"
Unlike men, most women's sexual desire has a subtle relationship with their menstrual cycle. British female scholar Mary Carmelstorps has carried out a large number of social surveys and studies, and summarized the "female sexual desire cycle curve". The figure shows that in each 28-day menstrual cycle, there are two peak areas, one is within two or three days before menstruation, the other is within 8 to 9 days after menstruation, and the two peak areas are about 14 days between them.
In the peak period, women have spontaneous sexual impulse and are in a physical and physiological state of excitement. This important feature should not only be understood and mastered by oneself, but also be told to the husband. During this period, women tend to have orgasms.
Tell your husband about your "best satisfaction"
In the process of sexual life, including the preparation stage and after the end, each wife has a variety of experiences, including the experience of satisfaction, joy and happiness, as well as the experience of dissatisfaction, disappointment, disgust and even pain. These experiences should be communicated and communicated with the husband, and actively told to him.
Of course, we should pay attention to strategy, which is also an art. The principle is to say what you are most satisfied with first and praise more. When the husband is happy, tell him what he doesn't like and how to improve in the future. Don't blame him, let alone sarcasm and sarcasm, such as "you are useless".
Strengthen communication and discussion during menstruation, pregnancy and childbirth
According to the survey data, sexual disputes and conflicts between husband and wife are significantly more than usual during the wife's menstrual period, pregnancy and puerperal period. This is because during the above period, wives can not meet their husbands' sexual requirements, which often suppresses their sexual desire. On the one hand, it is caused by the husband, who cannot understand and sympathize with his wife; On the one hand, the wife is also responsible for not communicating well with her husband.
If you take the initiative to explain the reason to your husband, you will generally gain his understanding. Smart wives tell their husbands about their menstrual cycles, which not only takes into account the "bedtime" between husband and wife, but also is a kind of information that allows husbands to do more housework and be more considerate of themselves. Some wives cleverly mark the dates of their menstruation on the calendar, so that the husband can know at a glance; Some wives are used to sending messages in kind words: "Honey, I'm here."
Women's privacy makes men think wildly
According to a survey, 92% of women remember the shoes they bought with their own money for the first time, whether they bought designer shoes or discount goods on the street, but only 63% of women can remember the name of their first kiss.
1. The first pair of shoes is more memorable than the first kiss.
According to a survey, 92% of women remember the shoes they bought with their own money for the first time, whether they bought designer shoes or discount goods on the street, but only 63% of women can remember the name of their first kiss. What's more exaggerated is that 96% of women regret abandoning a pair of shoes, but only 15% feel this way about abandoning their boyfriend.
2. Wednesday is like the day when my aunt comes.
Most women have their own independent opinions on work. They don't want to work too hard, and they don't want to be bored. However, it is funny that it is a compulsory course for women to lie in bed before going to work. It is also common for women to brush toothpaste on their faces with their eyes closed. For Monday, it is also a dissociative state of not knowing what to do. Wednesday is more like a black watershed. They look forward to this day and endure it, so their mood is very unstable at this time, just like the days when their aunt came.
3. 80% of women are not very satisfied with their body.
Even the most dazzling models or bright stars often express some dissatisfaction with some part of their body. Many women even feel that they are either not plump enough, or that their body is not sexy enough, and those with breasts and bodies feel that their faces are not attractive enough. In the eyes of women, they will never be the most beautiful one. Therefore, many women will perform some minor operations on their unsatisfied places or have some inferiority complex.
4. More than 70% of women's husbands are not their preferred spouses, or do not meet the initial criteria for choosing a spouse.
Although many of them are now living a happy life, 70% of women's husbands are not their first choice. The reason why I choose my current husband is that I feel that my criteria for choosing a spouse either do not meet the needs of reality, or that reality is more important than love.
5. Sleeping in the nude is not to release the bondage but to feel the touch.
Many women like to sleep naked, which is not what they say to release the shackles of a day, or even to prevent breast cancer. These are just gorgeous excuses. In fact, what can promote health is nothing more than accelerating the nerves of their brains under the friction of quilts. How can they be alone in the dead of night when they are most proud, proud, and coveted by men? I just want to feel more ambiguous touch, even if it is just a cold thin quilt.
6. Push you away to get close to you again.
Some men don't understand why women pretend to be angry to push you away when they are clearly in need. In fact, men don't understand. This is just a tactic of women. When she pushes you away, she is already ready to hug you next time. If you are confused by the illusion, then you may never come near her again.
7. Love shopping is not like to decorate yourself, but is not confident in yourself.
Like shopping is the dead end of women, so women will become crazy once they get to the street. But you must not be mistaken to think that women are just trying to make themselves look better. More importantly, they are using external things to decorate their mood and make themselves confident enough.
8. Taking children is more like keeping pets, and living life is like acting in movies.
When a child is born, a woman is like an art master. She can pack the child as a whole and instill it from inside and outside. All who have not tried, or who have no reason, want to experiment on the child, so that the little boy becomes Snow White who is fascinated by your skirt, while the little girl becomes a monk with hair and practice.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
