Where do I come from? For every child, it is a question of longing to know. However, parents always believe that their children are very young, ignorant, and difficult to answer, so they adopt avoidance and deception methods. There is no positive answer, only vague language deception, and various absurd answers are fabricated to deal with their children, such as things found in the trash, things falling from the sky, and so on. Some parents do not even allow their children to ask such questions.
Infant period (0-1 years old):
Love education. Parents should frequently touch the baby's skin to satisfy their emotions. After the birth of a newborn, both his appetite and sexual desire are innate behaviors (instincts). Boys have spontaneous penile erection, while girls occasionally have vaginal secretions. Therefore, in addition to having enough food and sleep to meet his physiological needs, the baby should also have a beautiful environment and parental care, such as the small mouth of a lactating baby touching the mother's nipple, hugging and caressing the baby's skin, kissing the baby's small hands and face, etc, It is very important for the baby to have emotional communication with their parents and cultivate a sense of love during the process of receiving their love. This is crucial for those who have a good character, kindness, and compassion in the future.
Early childhood (1-2 years old):
Educate young children to achieve sexual awareness on the basis of sexual awareness and prevent human bias. At this time, boys and girls have a lack of self-awareness towards gender, which is completely determined by their parents. They first receive their recognition from their parents before self-awareness, which is the result of their recognition. Therefore, parents should address and dress their children based on their gender to let them know whether they are men or women.
Due to the fact that a child's gender is not as good as their wishes, some parents dress him up as their preferred gender. So far, the child's personality recognition and personality recognition are chaotic, and their personality and interests develop towards the opposite sex. In the future, there will be psychological deviations and abnormalities.
During this period, children begin to speak and understand the language of adults. Parents can combine daily life to teach children to understand various parts of their body and their simple functions, such as the hands, face, eyes, ears, nose, etc. when washing faces, and the navel, sexual organs, etc. when bathing. During this period, children believed that touching their genitals was the same thing as playing with their hands and feet. They often touch or play with their genitals. This is a normal action. Parents don't have to blame him excessively nervously. As long as you tell him correctly, that's the little cock that urinates. If you feel dirty, you will get sick and enjoy cleaning, just like protecting your eyes. Wearing diapers and pants for children can reduce their chances of playing with organs. When children play with their genitals, they can try to shift their attention to other interesting games.