Post Date November, 16 2024
Some wives are confused about their husbands' sexual function, why? Domestic and foreign sexologists believe that this is closely related to whether the sexual life of couples is harmonious, and it is also the crux of the problem. According to a survey, among married individuals, on average, both parties (especially women) have one-time gratification during their two sexual encounters, accounting for only 1.2%. Among the average three sexual encounters, there are one-time gratification, accounting for only 20.6%. Many people claim that having one-time gratification during several sexual encounters is already considered very good.
Pursuing sexual harmony between spouses is essential, but the characteristics and differences between the two parties objectively exist. The husband's sexual excitement comes and goes quickly, usually about 2-6 minutes, reaching orgasm and ejaculation, and then quickly disappearing. The wife's excitement is slow, usually about 10-30 minutes. However, the duration is long and the disappearance is slow. The husband's sexual desire is mainly concentrated in the sexual organs, while the wife's sexual desire is not only reflected in the sexual organs, but can also be satisfied through language, touch, hugging, kissing, and other aspects. In order to maintain a harmonious sexual life between couples, sex must be done before entering the room, which is medically known as sexual induction. It is mainly aimed at increasing the sexual excitement of both parties, and it takes about 1/3-1/2 of the entire process to shorten the difference between the two.
Husbands should provide a lot of touch and sexual stimulation such as language, and wives should also adopt a positive attitude. Then, they should create a unique atmosphere with the lights and colors they like each other, which is more poetic and picturesque than the darkness after turning off the lights, with a hazy sense of mystery. Especially when the husband has visual stimulation and sexual desire ability to do room work, they should think more of the other party, especially when the husband wants to think of his wife, and if the sexual impulse is too strong, To use deep breathing and other methods to appropriately suppress the wife, it is necessary to fully understand the impulse and actively assist. After the work in the room is completed, if the wife has not yet reached orgasm, the husband can compensate by raising love and other methods to satisfy the wife. Discordant sexual life should be regarded as normal, encouraged and comforted each other, and confidence should be established. Doubt, complain, or blame the other party to avoid damaging emotions and affecting the improvement of sexual activity.
