Don't be reckless when it comes to sexual taboos. The harm of love to the body during these taboo times is enormous, so don't just try to be quick!
Be cautious about sexual activity during pregnancy
In the first three months of pregnancy, the stimulation of sexual life will cause Uterine contraction, causing abdominal pain and bleeding in women. Even miscarriage. In the last three months of pregnancy, it should also be avoided.
There should be no sexual activity during the postpartum period.
The changes that occur in a woman's entire body and reproductive organs after pregnancy gradually recover after childbirth, which takes approximately 6-7 weeks. It is called the postpartum period or "confinement". At this time, the maternal body's resistance is poor, and in addition, the placenta in the postpartum uterus peels off and leaves wounds, making it more likely to get sick. Therefore, during the postpartum period, attention should be paid to rest and sexual activity should not be allowed to avoid causing inflammation of the birth canal or hindering the healing of Y and Y tract wounds. If the duration of postpartum Y tract bloody secretions is prolonged, the abstinence time will be correspondingly prolonged.
During lactation, it is advisable to moderate sexual activity.
Although this period is not a restricted area for sexual intercourse, due to the low demands of lactating women and their main focus on taking care of their children day and night, fatigue and decreased libido require moderation in sexual activity. The female reproductive organs are temporarily atrophied due to breastfeeding. The wall of the Y tract is relatively fragile, and sexual intercourse may cause tissue rupture, leading to bleeding and infection. Therefore, the man should avoid rough movements and moderate sexual activity.
Avoid sexual intercourse after birth control surgery.
Do not have sexual intercourse within one month after performing ring lifting and ring removal, induced abortion, induction of labor in big month, Vas deferens ligation, caesarean section and sterilization, so as to avoid bacteria entering the uterine cavity, causing uterine inflammation, Vas deferens ligation local infection and hematoma. After miscarriage, the intrauterine femur does not fully return to normal, and there is a wound in the uterine cavity. At this time, sexual activity can cause inflammation of the endometrium, forming endometritis, adnexitis, etc., which can also affect future fertility. If there is incomplete uterine involution or residual placenta after childbirth, resulting in incomplete postpartum lochia, the duration of sexual activity should be appropriately postponed according to the condition.
How to Choose Lifetime
What is the best time to have sex during the day and night?
Many couples are very concerned about this issue, and sexologists are constantly exploring and studying it. The arrangement of sexual activity time should usually consider two issues; One is not to have sex in a state of fatigue, and the other is to have a relatively sufficient rest and recovery time after sex. From the current practice of sexual life, there are roughly three statements.
1、 Some people believe that evening time is better.
The so-called night usually refers to around 22:00, which is the time when a considerable number of people are about to fall asleep. People who hold this view believe that sexual activity requires a significant amount of physical exertion. During this period of time, sexual activity can be immediately followed by falling asleep, allowing both parties to have sufficient rest and maintaining sufficient energy the next day;
2、 Some people believe that early morning, around 6 o'clock, is better.
People who hold this opinion believe that after a night's rest, their physical strength has been restored and they have better energy during sexual activity. In addition, from a physiological perspective, the concentration of adrenal hormones in the human body is the highest, and sexual desire is also strongest at this time. Having sex at this time can lead to Sexual arousal for a short time. Although one cannot rest in a timely manner after sexual intercourse and immediately needs to engage in work and study, the physical exertion of a one-time life is not significant. Have sex in the morning and judge whether it is suitable for you based on the feeling of no fatigue or discomfort after sex.
3、 Some people advocate that it is best to sleep for a few hours first and wake up before engaging in sexual activity.
People who hold this view believe that modern people's pace of life is fast, and after 8 hours of study and work a day, they are mostly tired. However, in the evening, they still want to enjoy a relaxed night life and engage in necessary social interactions. Generally, they go to bed late at night, and in this situation, engaging in sexual activity may not satisfy both parties due to physical exhaustion and mental fatigue. If you take a nap and get the necessary rest for a period of time, your physical strength and energy will be restored, and you can sleep for a few more hours after sexual intercourse.
The above three statements each have their own perspectives and reasons. It is also difficult to say which time has absolute advantages or disadvantages, but for a considerable number of couples, the first statement is the most common. In fact, the choice of sexual time is in the hands of every couple, and the timing of sexual activity should be determined based on their work and study arrangements, physical, mental, and emotional conditions, as well as their sexual habits and preferences. For example, people with weaker sexual function choose to make up for their weaknesses in the early morning; People who work hard tend to maintain strong work energy before bedtime.
In short, there is no fixed schedule for sexual activity. As long as both spouses agree and enjoy it together, and it does not affect each other's work and study the next day, no matter what time is chosen, it is appropriate and there is no need to insist on it consistently.