What are men thinking about on their first date? Generally speaking, the first date is like an old fox with only strategy. If they are rejected for the first time, don't think it's like a scene in an idol drama. Men will still stick to you like candy, only becoming braver as they fight. In fact, at this time, men may consider changing women to try their luck.
Men want to handle it all at once.
With the development of technology, we should have more time to fall in love, but the fact is that urban men and women not only need to work longer hours, but the distance between their place of residence and work is also getting farther and farther. Some surveys even suggest that the time allowed for them to act freely and freely every day is only 22.3 minutes.
Women need to take 21.2 minutes to determine what clothes to wear; Men need 18.7 minutes to tidy their hair and shave. The true idle time is 1.1 minutes and 3.6 minutes, respectively. Of course, the above statement is somewhat exaggerated, but you have to admit that dating is a time-consuming thing.
In order to improve the hit rate, 57% of men met their partner through friend introductions, 31% met at bars or parties, and 12% chose to date their work partners. Once a man wants to approach a woman, he often takes the initiative to invite her. It is not difficult to achieve this step, as long as it is not a fear or high self-esteem, it should be possible to achieve it in a relaxed state of mind.
72% of men set their first date at a restaurant and then watch a movie; 27% of people go hiking or exercise, while the remaining 1% think of unexpected ways.
If the first date goes smoothly, the man will think that the relationship between the two is likely to grow well in the future. On the contrary, if a woman is not touched on her first date, she will disappear and never hear from her again. Due to the habitual assumption that there is no second chance, men tend to appear attentive on their first date.
Therefore, if the woman has the sincerity to accept the man, she should give corresponding hints. If due to your numbness or hesitation, she cannot convey the message "I also think you are good" to the other party in a timely manner, and does not create favorable conditions for the men to take action, perhaps the relationship between the two may not make progress in the end. To put it bluntly, there are more and more pampered men who are too shy and not good at interacting with women. These men often expect women to take the initiative.