Post Date November, 16 2024
After puberty, the Secondary sex characteristic develops and matures, and the sexual physiology and psychology will change greatly. People are often curious about the opposite sex, which inevitably leads to puppy love. Early love can occupy students' energy, and due to poor emotional processing ability, excessive emotional fluctuations during the love process can affect academic performance and cause psychological harm. When parents discover a child's early love, they need to respond properly.
What should I do if I discover a child's puppy love?
1. Reasonably handling children's early love issues
Having a liking for the opposite sex after entering adolescence is a normal psychological manifestation, and it is a vague and longing for love among adolescent children. Parents should approach this issue calmly and not blindly criticize and insult to avoid angering their children and making things more difficult to control. Parents should be mentally prepared in advance and should not suddenly change their attitude towards their children, giving them more care.
2. Fully respect children
When discovering a child's early love, parents must show a certain amount of respect. Don't go to school to cause trouble because of anger, otherwise it will cause everyone in the school to know. It is also not advisable to go to each other's children without permission in TV dramas, as this can harm their self-esteem and even cause inferiority.
3. Spend more time with children
Many children fall in love early because they cannot feel warmth at home. Many parents treat their children in a violent way, always feeling that their parents do not like or love them, and have long hoped to be valued and recognized by others, which is why early love appears. So parents should spend more time with their children, communicate and communicate with them, and change their unhealthy educational methods. After children let go of their defense against their parents, they should guide them correctly.
4. Respect children's privacy
Many parents will track or peek at children's diaries or see children's mobile Chat log when facing children's puppy love. This kind of bad behavior makes children more resistant. Children are independent individuals and should have room for independence, and parents should give them some respect. In addition, it is important to communicate with children more and understand that they cannot object to early love. They must express their attitude, tell them that early love is not scary, and that it is scary to have bad friends. At the same time, teach children the correct ways to protect themselves.
5. Provide appropriate sex education for children
Both boys and girls should have basic education in sexuality, telling them not to trample on their bodies. There is nothing wrong with early love, but it is important to grasp the degree and handle the relationship between learning and love.
