Sexual Health
What to do if couples have disharmonious sex? Remember three foolish behaviors in sexual life
Sex is a very beautiful thing for people to enjoy life. However, there are many people in life who are mentally tormented due to their disharmonious handling of marital sexual issues. What is the reason? This is because they have violated some taboos in family life regarding sexual activities between couples
Sexual suspicion leads to trouble
Liu Jun is a business supervisor of a company, young and handsome, with strong ability to handle affairs. The company often sends him on business trips, which makes his wife quite worried, afraid that his handsome face may be seduced by other women outside.
So, his wife took the following positive preventive measures against him: on the one hand, whenever Liu wanted to go on a business trip, her wife always showed her love actively. On the other hand, she expressed her true love and bound Liu Jun with emotions; The second is to "feed" Liu Jun before going out, in case he acts out on a whim. On the other hand, whenever Liu Jun comes back from a business trip, his wife is even more enthusiastic and eagerly serves him. She often eagerly falls in love with Liu Jun in a timely manner, with the intention of saying goodbye rather than getting married, which is due to her "sexual interest"; Secondly, it is possible to "check" whether the husband has betrayed her outside, although this method is not scientific and is only a feeling of oneself. If Liu Jun doesn't behave well when she returns, she will keep asking herself: Has her husband had an affair outside?
Once, due to missing the train number, Liu Jun returned in the middle of the night. After days of traveling, he was too tired. After a simple wash, he wanted to sleep and rest. However, his wife still had to perform her sexual testing procedure. Liu Jun unintentionally swept away his wife's interest and forced her to have sex, which clearly resulted in a lack of energy and ultimately failure. Liu's wife was unhappy, and the suspicion that had been hidden in her heart for a long time suddenly turned into jealousy and erupted. Seeing that his wife was not considerate at all, Liu Jun suspected that he had an affair. Thinking that his hard work in traveling was not for the sake of this family, Liu Jun immediately became furious. In a moment, the two of them quarreled.
Afterwards, the two of them fell into a cold war, and the warmth of their family was gone. Liu Jun's difference was still to be made, but everything had changed, and the marriage building seemed precarious.
Comment: As a wife, one should trust their husband and believe in his sexual morality. This is also a concrete manifestation of self-confidence. If there is no reason for suspicion, it will only stimulate and harm them, leading to estrangement between couples. Moreover, mutual trust between couples is the minimum requirement for establishing a marital relationship and the foundation of love. If the foundation is shaken, everything else will become meaningless, and marriage will also face disintegration.