What should women pay attention to during their first sexual intercourse? The first sexual intercourse is crucial

What are the precautions for women's first sexual intercourse? During a woman's first sexual encounter, due to lack of experience, there are always unexpected situations that prevent sexual intercourse from proceeding smoothly. So what are the precautions for women's first sexual encounter? The editor will summarize for you as follows.

1、 Precautions for Women's First Sex

1. Are bleeding and pain virgins?

The first thing that comes into contact with newlyweds during their first sexual encounter is the issue of the "hymen". The hymen has always played a more important role in society and morality than other sexual organs. This is because its integrity has always been considered a reliable indicator, or even the only indicator, for determining a woman's chastity. In fact, from the perspective of medical practice, it is not scientific to judge whether a virgin is a virgin based on whether there is bleeding or pain.

Because not every virgin experiences bleeding or pain during their first sexual intercourse, and the characteristics of the hymen vary from person to person, including thin, thick, loose, tight, large, and small, with varying shapes. Some may rupture due to intense exercise, cycling, falls, injuries, menstrual cramps, masturbation, and other reasons; Some are older and the hymen has naturally retracted; Some are not very obvious at birth: some have a strong stretch of the hymen, which remains intact even after multiple sexual intercourse. So, it is obviously extremely unfair to rely solely on the hymen to determine the chastity of a wife.

2. What should I do if I fail my first sexual intercourse?

It is also common to have failed sexual intercourse on a wedding night. According to analysis, the main reasons for failure during first sexual intercourse include: 10% of cases where the penis is already weak (caused by excessive tension) before sexual intercourse; 8% ejaculate before sexual intercourse or just after contact with the female vagina (caused by excessive excitement or impatience); 35% suffer from female pain; 15% do not know the location of sexual intercourse; 20% of cases have unclear reasons.

On the other hand, the failure of first sexual intercourse is related to the lack of caressing experience. People without experience account for two-thirds of the failure rate, while those who can understand the reason after first sexual intercourse failure account for one-third. Most of the losers can smoothly bond after 2-5 attempts, so even if they fail, there is no need to be anxious or worry. They can take a break and try again, or wait for a day or two for both parties to stabilize their emotions, Try again after the fatigue of getting married has eased.

If the man fails, the woman's accusations such as "really useless" or "too bad" often lead to greater psychological setbacks for the man who feels ashamed and uneasy, leading to difficulties. At this point, if the woman can murmur love words in a reasonable and calm manner, providing encouragement and comfort to the man, the man will regain courage and seek harmony and happiness in his sexual life.