Post Date November, 16 2024
1. Understand the principle of male erection. When a man is aroused by sex, the brain will send a signal to the penis nerve to relax the blood vessels and make the blood flow in. When the blood fills the penis, the high pressure will close the outlet channel and leave the blood in the penis to help maintain the erection. If there are problems in this process, men will have erectile dysfunction.
2. Don't blame yourself. When a man has an erection, many women will feel responsible for themselves: they feel that they are not attractive, and men have no feelings for themselves. This is not the case. Sex and marriage expert Ian Kerner explained that erectile problems are very rare because they have no feelings for female partners and can be ignored.
3. Show moderate goodwill. Although the attraction of women will not affect the erection of men, the "incompetence" of attraction to men will bring him pressure and aggravate the problem. Therefore, when a man has this problem, he can never say it is worse. Put himself in the man's inner feelings, show proper understanding and care, keep calm and don't chatter.
4. Understand the possible causes. There are many reasons for erectile dysfunction, such as tension, stress, depression, alcoholism, smoking, drug abuse or taking certain drugs, low testosterone level, obesity, etc. In addition, diabetes, heart disease, multiple sclerosis and other common diseases can also lead to erectile difficulties.
5. Sexual change mode. If a man softens in the process of sex, he can stop substantive sexual intercourse and do some other sexual behaviors that they all like, such as kissing, helping him masturbate, using sex toys, etc. In short, you can do anything to help a man feel sexual pleasure and relieve his pressure.
6. Admit that it is inappropriate to talk about this topic "at the time of the incident", but when a man feels relaxed and safe, he can share his feelings at that time with him. At the same time, encourage him to share his feelings. If both men and women can open, understand and support each other on this topic, they will further shorten the distance.
7. Go to see a doctor together. If the male partner often has erections, go to the doctor in time to find out the cause of erectile dysfunction. At this time, the wife should accompany her husband.
8. Encourage him not to hold tightly when masturbating. One possible reason for erectile dysfunction is that men hold too tightly when masturbating. Dan Savage, a sex advice columnist, said that when he found that his partner had masturbation habits, he should remind him not to hold it too tightly, which would affect the long-term flow of blood.
