Post Date December, 02 2023
When our relationship is not very smooth, we will think about the reasons more or less. When girls look in the mirror and find that they are not ugly, some people will start to ask the opinions of their friends of the opposite sex to see what the problem is. But believe me, usually the opposite sex will not tell you the truth directly. Most of them are packaged. Below I will unravel the true meaning behind the opinions of friends of the opposite sex.
1. You are too outgoing, boys will be afraid.
If you look good, it may mean that the boy thinks that you have too many friends of the opposite sex and are too fond of playing, and he may not be able to control such a girl, so he chooses to give up; If you look ordinary, it may be that your speech or behavior is too strong or subjective, so that boys don't know how to get along with you, and even feel a little tired and stressed with you.
2. You are too outgoing. Boys usually prefer to be quiet.
This usually means that you are not feminine. If you are beautiful or have a good figure, boys will still treat you as the opposite sex, but they may not think it is suitable to be a girlfriend, because it is not in line with men's projection of their girlfriend; If you look ordinary, you are likely to fall into the dilemma that boys don't regard you as the opposite sex at all.
When men decide whether the other party is heterosexual, they have a certain relationship with whether they have sexual fantasies about the other party.
So even if you have long hair and makeup, as long as your words and actions make people feel rude, temperamental, violent and impatient, it is difficult to connect with women, and naturally will not be considered as an object.
3. You are too lively and outgoing. I feel that many people are chasing you.
This may be the OS in your friend's heart. He may have thought you didn't miss it, but he gave up later for some reason. When the object you like belongs to a more herbivorous, or less experienced, introverted, shy type, this may become a fatal injury,
Especially when you don't give the other party a special green light, they are likely to presume that they have no chance, and then do nothing, or choose to maintain a good friendship.
If there have been many people chasing you more than once in other people's comments on you, don't doubt whether your feelings are bad because your parents made you too ugly. Your appearance is definitely a basic threshold. The rest of the reason is usually not the appearance, but the mentality.
4. You are too noisy.
This sentence has no hidden meaning, just as it appears on the face, but you can directly understand it as a direct version of the second sentence pattern, that is to say, you are not feminine.
The above sentence patterns are easy for extroverted girls to encounter. In fact, as long as you can have femininity, it doesn't matter whether you are introverted or extroverted. You don't have to modify your character at all, just make up for other lack of femininity, skills and mentality.
The inward and outward thing is like Haway. Some people like it and others don't like it. No matter what personality you are, there will be your market, but the premise is that you must be treated as an object first.
