Post Date December, 02 2023
Some people choose to get drunk to relieve their worries when they are sad, while others feel that drinking alcohol to relieve their worries is even more important; Some people say that being drunk is as carefree as a fairy, while others say that all the pain comes one after another after being drunk; Some people say that drinking alcohol makes you look like a madman, while others say that only after drinking alcohol can you speak the truth... Wine seems to be a really good thing, and it seems to be a bad thing. Some women have encountered such troubles, she doesn't know if it's the wine that made her see her marriage clearly, or the wine that made her witness her husband's sincerity towards her. Should her husband be forgiven for the mistakes he made while drunk? What should my husband do if he has an affair with a woman due to being drunk?
Firstly, determine whether the husband is unconscious and disorderly after drinking due to being drunk, or whether he is using alcohol to strengthen his courage.
People who drink alcohol, some pour one glass at a time, while others never get drunk. Perhaps you are not very clear about your husband's drinking capacity, but if he has a lot of meals on a regular basis, he can at least take a few sips. Therefore, when you hear your husband having an affair with another woman while drunk, don't rush to settle accounts with him! My husband's friends or colleagues, to some extent, you also have some intersections. Can you get to know one or two of them? Ask them to see how much alcohol my husband drank that night, and then you can roughly calculate whether he was completely drunk or slightly drunk. If he is drunk unconscious, then a large part of the responsibility for the affair should be with that woman. However, if he only gets drunk and goes to bed with another woman, it can only indicate that he has already had this malicious intention.
Secondly, confirm whether the husband had a one night stand after getting drunk or took the opportunity to betray the marriage.
It is possible to determine whether a husband often has extramarital affairs through his mobile communication, time spent outside, overtime, social expenses, etc. (For specific judgment of whether a man has extramarital affairs, please refer to relevant articles on the website, such as the eight major manifestations of men having extramarital affairs). If many phenomena indicate that a husband has women outside, then he is indeed not worth forgiving, It is disrespectful to betray your marriage due to an affair after getting drunk. You can completely divorce this man who doesn't love you. But if he keeps his composure and compensates you twice after the drunken affair, then he is still a good man. After all, everyone makes mistakes, so comfort yourself. He only accidentally caught the advice of those women who want to pick up salted fish.
Finally, determine whether to divorce or forgive based on the husband's attitude towards infidelity.
When all the above situations are confirmed, you should not immediately reconcile with your husband. You should know that if he makes such an excessive mistake and can easily be forgiven, he will definitely not cherish you well. Since everyone is speaking out loud, don't beat around the bush. Just give him a chance, but it depends on his performance. If his attitude is sincere and serious, you may as well forgive him once. However, if he perfunctory, you don't need to insist on finishing this loveless marriage.
When a person's strengths are particularly significant, they come with a halo effect. When you think they are excellent in everything, and when a person's mistakes are very obvious, you generalize and generalize. Little do you know that your overly one-sided view can distort a person's essence. Even if they are your closest lover, you should objectively view them as a whole. How should they be forgiven? What is incurable again? You should handle this matter fairly and fairly, so as not to disappoint the love between you.
