What should men and women do when interacting? Have you learned 9 knowledge of love psychology

How to get along with men and women? Do you know what your partner is thinking in their heart? How to make your relationship stronger? Let the editor tell you how to get along with men and women, and what to pay attention to when dating.

Falling in love is also a subject. In school, teachers will teach you how to study and achieve high grades, but they won't teach you how to fall in love. At home, parents will ask you how to get into a good university and find a good job. When you reach the age of marriage, they will only urge you to get married quickly, but they won't teach you how to fall in love, and even won't let you fall in love. Therefore, at a certain age, many people have a lot of knowledge but never know how to socialize with girls.

In romantic life, men and women usually have different psychological states, so many problems arise for a reason, such as "I don't understand what you're saying", "Do you really care about me", "I'm too lazy to continue communicating with you", and so on. These problems seem to originate from women's unreasonable behavior, but in fact, they are inseparable from the psychological differences between men and women that lead to different attitudes. Today, I will tell you how to be a good wife from the perspective of love psychology, and take a look at the female charm in men's eyes!

Psychology of Love

1. Two men chasing one woman, give up first with the one with shallow affection, and two women chasing one man, give up first with the one with deep affection.

2. A large amount of psychological research has shown that the earlier you get married, the higher the quality of your marriage. Research has shown that waiting is only meaningful for people under the age of 22.

3. The appearance of a wife is closely related to her husband's personality and attitude towards her. A broad-minded husband can accommodate his wife.

4. A man's initiative to kiss a woman is an emergency, while a woman's initiative to kiss a man is a premeditated event.

5. According to chemical expert Jin Zezhi, the average IQ of men who are relatively loyal to their partners is 103, while the average IQ of men who are not loyal is 97.

6. American psychologists say that boys and girls each have six basic love needs. Male: Trust, accept, praise, acknowledge, encourage. Girls: care, understanding, respect, loyalty, understanding, comfort.

7. If a man takes the initiative to carry your bag for you, puts you on the side of the road, and pulls a chair for you, don't feel grateful for it, it can only indicate that he has had countless girlfriends teach him this before.

8. Psychological research shows that men speak an average of 2000 words per day, while women speak 7000 words per day.

9. 8.2 seconds in love: Scientists believe that if a man pays attention to a woman for more than 8.2 seconds during the first meeting, he is already more than just attracted.

Over time, it may become dull and all that needs to be said has been said. At this point, care for the other person, help them manage everything, and think for them more. At this point, love has reached a gentle trend. When each other reaches the point where the other is everything (if love is deep), it is even more important to maintain it, as even a little friction may lead to conflicts.

In short, both parties should trust each other, be loyal to each other, and say anything calmly. Solve everything well. True love is easy, but maintaining this relationship requires both parties to manage it appropriately - that's the hardest part! As the old saying goes, it is easy to capture, but difficult to defend.

Women all hope to be the most charming in men's eyes, but what kind of women do men appreciate?

1. It's best to always be elegant and charming

Whether it's a friend gathering or your company's New Year's party, her attire can be inconspicuous, but the bottom line is not to let you lose face in front of everyone.

Based on the principle of both internal and external cultivation, it is best for her to respond appropriately, have cultivation, insight, and taste.

In addition, if you find that your hair has gradually turned white, it is best to go to a hair salon to have it dyed. Maintaining a good figure and healthy lifestyle habits are all important things that cannot be ignored. Oh, by the way, don't casually wear cheap clothes. Your clothes may not be many, but you must pay attention to quality. At least when you wear them, you can make others see your beauty.

2. She is strong and independent

Some men like women to be little birds, so that they can protect them.

More men prefer women to have an independent spirit. Don't let your nose run and tears run down, and don't stick to them all day, making her world without even a friend to chat with except for you.

Men like to have their own space, but in fact, you also want to have your own space. She is strong and independent, which is the most beautiful in your heart.

3. Emphasize family atmosphere

Don't order takeout every day. I will learn some specialty dishes from my mother, and cook meals for you when I'm not busy with work. It's not important to have candlelight.

I have a slight understanding of needlework. If your button falls off, she will be able to sew it on quickly. Be compassionate. Adhere to breastfeeding after birth and not afraid of losing shape.

4. Develop the habit of reading

It is normal for married women to only read popular or fashion magazines. Unfortunately, some men may have some romantic feelings, like poetry, books, and articles, and hope that their partners also have this kind of elegance.

Reading is a good thing, of course, reading is not for the sake of appearance. Reading helps her avoid the sin of ignorance, allows her to have more common topics with you, and also enhances her temperament.

Overall, it is still a joyful and rewarding effort.

5. Occasionally dreaming with you

In the life of oil, salt, firewood, and rice, men occasionally overflow with unrealistic dreams in their hearts. Even if it's too ethereal, don't mercilessly mock you.

When in a mood, she dreams with you. Don't worry too much, what normal man would be so stupid and think that a dream would never wake up?

6. With a touch of humor

A woman's gentleness and kindness are sugar, but a single sweetness will eventually tire a man to death.

Humorous temperament is salt, which is sparsely distributed in a woman's body. However, once it exists, it can evoke a unique flavor - compared to women who cover their ears when listening to adult jokes, women who can tell one or two adult jokes are certainly more interesting.

7. Love my house and love my dog

Love you, take the initiative to care for your family.

To be a good wife, one should know how to appreciate his eyes, like the things he likes, and care about the people he cares about. You should know that although men may not say it, they still hope that you can fulfill your responsibilities as a wife. For example, visiting his parents during the Chinese New Year, or having a meal with friends, you can maintain a warm attitude.

8. Full of confidence

Don't be neurotic about your interactions with female friends, as if you have an affair, you should abandon them.

A confident woman will never be a police dog sniffing after her husband's buttocks, nor will she understand what it means to be abandoned.

Even if you really have an affair, she still has the confidence to drag you back to her side - if she is willing to have you again.

9. Tolerate him of his ordinariness

Don't expect too much from you, and show maximum tolerance for your mediocrity and insignificance. You are not a wealthy person or a successful person, but she is willing to live an ordinary life with you.

She is tolerant and witty, not prone to nagging or complaining about your clumsiness and not being able to make a lot of money - you know, this is what men are most afraid and annoyed about.

What to pay attention to when dating

In addition to being romantic, what boys need to do more is to know how to accompany.

This is not solely about distance, but also about the companionship of the heart. Even in long-distance relationships, it is important to be a good companion. Sometimes the woman will tell you some small grievances or hints, and then she needs your comfort and needs you to accompany her well. Don't just think about the events the girl is talking about, but more importantly, care for her and sincerely accompany her. The most important thing is to avoid showing indifference, otherwise the trouble will be huge.

Girls love to eat vinegar, and men should pay more attention to their words and actions.

In fact, sometimes girls deliberately ask the man if he is jealous, and the man should say a little bit because the woman is foolishly proving whether you care about her.