What should I do with postpartum frigidity? Getting rid of the misconception of postpartum frigidity

More patients with postpartum emotional transfer

Zhao Min (pseudonym) had a cesarean section on November 24th last year for BB, and the doctor said that he could have the same room in 3 months. My husband made a request to me within three months, but I seemed to have no response and felt as uncomfortable as dealing with him. Eight months have passed now, and last week he requested that I have not responded yet. Perhaps after giving birth to BB, all my energy has been invested in BB. Once in the middle of the night, when he grabbed my hand, I shook it off and said I was breastfeeding the child. He didn't turn around at once, he didn't speak to me the next day. In that case, I'm worried about an accident, but I can't do without my child and husband alone.

Zhao Min sought medical attention for this. Professor Huang Yajuan, director of obstetrics and gynecology at Shanghai Sixth People's Hospital, said that women are cold after childbirth. To be precise, there should be many patients with postpartum emotional transfer. Clinical statistics show that women suffer from sexual dysfunction, which is three times that of men.

Female dysfunction is usually closely related to gynecological diseases or the abuse of some drugs. In addition, after childbirth, the role of a woman at home has changed, from a wife to a mother, resulting in significant mental and physical exertion. For example, the change of life rhythm has a great impact on the Circadian clock, such as feeding the baby, letting the baby sleep, and soaking milk powder in the middle of the night. A lot of physical expenditure makes the husband feel the same as his husband.

Regarding the issue of postpartum female frigidity, Director Huang suggests that the husband should have a better understanding of his wife at this time. Adopting a tough attitude can actually backfire. The correct approach is to care for your wife and help take care of your children in daily life. In this way, the wife's physical strength is replenished and she will naturally actively cooperate. It is understandable that the wife is not interested in sexual life due to physical reasons, not so-called frigidity, but should be more concerned and cared for. It is natural for physical weakness to lead to a decrease in sexual activity. Husbands should also pay attention to learning communication skills with their wives. Communication between genders requires technology. You should know how to open the curtain of sex, how to attract the other person's attention, and take the initiative to attack on a night that has special significance for couples. You can learn relevant knowledge through experts, friends, or books. Of course, the most important thing is practice.

Misunderstandings of postpartum frigidity

No girl loses confidence after giving birth, and the change in body shape brings them a great sense of loss. Some women believe that children relaxing their vagina through the production line cannot make their husbands happy. Director Huang Yajuan introduced that the hospital has established functional recovery treatments such as pelvic floor training and stress testing for postpartum women, which can help them lead a better sexual life as soon as possible.

After childbirth, the placenta causes a sharp decrease in hormone levels in the body, and hormonal effects have a promoting effect. Normal women naturally recover their hormone levels within a year. In addition, the decrease of postpartum Vaginal discharge is also the reason for women's lack of enthusiasm after childbirth. Director Huang Yajuan said, "Many women are ostracized, bored, and even fearful due to the lack of internal secretions and vaginal pain in their first sexual intercourse after 3 months. Sometimes when their husband wants to make love, I follow him, but I can't find the pleasure of the past, which is a bit painful," said a young mother.

In addition, too many induced abortions and some Endocrine disease can cause frigidity. A female white-collar worker in her thirties who has had 17 miscarriages said, 'I have an average of 2-3 miscarriages a year. Now, my physical condition is not good, and I often catch colds, headaches, and feel bored as the weather changes. Do I still have the mood for such a body?'? I don't want to have sex now!

Professor Huang Yajuan, director of gynecology department of Shanghai Sixth People's Hospital, said that sex is an important part of defining happiness. Any attitude of avoidance and contempt is incorrect. Sexual life not only includes communication between the sexes, but also communication and interaction between couples. Try to relax your emotions, disperse various pressures and biases, and restore your initial enthusiasm and impulses.

Couple cooperation treatment is more effective

Experts believe that the most important thing is to strengthen awareness of sexual apathy and should not avoid this issue. Actively seek the help of a doctor and avoid delaying treatment due to shyness. To strengthen knowledge learning, correctly grasp sexual knowledge, handle sexual life, and face problems with a relaxed attitude. To succeed in these treatments, couples often need to cooperate. The embrace, kiss, and intimate whispers of a lover can sometimes reignite their passion for life.

In addition, it is also important to rest in daily life, arrange time reasonably, reduce bad habits, strengthen nutrition, combine dishes, exercise more, and maintain a healthy physique. If there is still depression in this area, some drugs can also be used to cooperate.