Post Date December, 02 2023
Go through the time of love, and then enter the palace of marriage together. Each other gradually bears the responsibility of maintaining marriage and family. But the calendar turns day by day. Even if we experience more storms together, we will inevitably experience the "seven-year itch" emotional crisis. What should I do if my husband finds out about extramarital affairs at this time? How to deal with such marital problems.
What should I do if I have an affair? The affair of extramarital affairs is not only the fault of the first party to cheat. If the man devotes himself to his work for a long time, doesn't care about other family matters, and even stays away at night for entertainment, and spends less and less time with each other, this is the breeding ground for extramarital affairs. Take the "article derailment incident" as an example, which is due to too much time spent working and lack of communication with his wife, resulting in a vicious tragedy of "good husband of the nation".
From this point of view, an extramarital affair cannot be clapped with one hand. Although the party who first crossed the border seriously challenged morality, it must be the first to bear the brunt. However, when we analyze and treat it rationally, the fundamental reason for its derailment is the result of the ever-expanding crisis of each other. Therefore, whether the other party has other immoral behaviors behind the scenes or not, it is necessary to bear certain moral responsibilities, which is worth reflection.
Unlike the woman who found out that he was dealing with the problem of cheating, the challenge to the man's self-esteem in dealing with this problem was far greater than that of the woman. Therefore, when the woman's extramarital affair is discovered by the man, the situation will often become extremely serious. In case of any verbal excessive behavior in the communication between each other, there is a high possibility of bloodshed; Of course, many men will take their own measures to maintain the whole family and even to prevent their children from being affected.
What should I do when an extramarital affair occurs? What should I do if my husband finds out about extramarital affairs?
If you are sure that your husband has found out about your extramarital affair and has not taken any action, please stop immediately and return to normal. You should know that a complete family is not allowed to have a third party lingering between husband and wife for a long time. My husband didn't take any measures, just gave you the opportunity to correct again and again. One night, the husband and wife have been in love for a hundred days, and have maintained their relationship for seven years or even more. He doesn't want it to collapse. The man attaches importance to this feeling and is willing to make some concessions in principle. If you continue to challenge the bottom line, it will push the whole family to a precipice, causing irreparable consequences. You should know that extramarital love is just a epiphyllum on the road of life. Even if it is beautiful, it can't give you eternal protection.
If your husband has seriously suspected your extramarital behavior, and you anticipate that there will be a family storm, learn to preempt and confess your mistakes. If you often walk by the river, you can't get your shoes wet. Instead of worrying about being caught by your husband all day, you'd better take the initiative to confess your mistakes and live again.
Go to a romantic theme restaurant and have a heartless conversation after a candlelight dinner. We should choose a restaurant with romantic style and emotional appeal in advance. We must feel warm and quiet, suitable for the environment of whispering. Don't worry about spending too much money, because this is already a battle in life, and we must win it. During the dinner, you can talk with your husband about the little things that have come, from acquaintance to acquaintance, from acquaintance to love. If you have children, you can also talk about them. Let her husband know that it is not easy to take on a family and go both ways. Finally, I will take the initiative to confess the affair of cheating and swear never to repeat it. Attitude must be sincere and sincere repentance. On the one hand, in such a quiet environment, people's mood is easy to relax, and it is easier to accept some apologies and entreaties compared with the general environment; On the other hand, you have voluntarily confessed, rather than being caught on the record. It can be seen that you are determined to reform and re-run the family.
Therefore, for extramarital affairs, "you can only be wise and not forceful". We must avoid aggressive behavior, especially when our husband finds out that he has cheated first, and tries to "preempt" by accusing the other party of mistakes and omissions in some aspects, which will only aggravate the marital conflict. We should learn to take advantage of an appropriate opportunity to use an environmental harbor suitable for "suppressing storms" to make a confession. Who can be ruthless when people are not plants? If my husband looks to rebuild his family and future, he will give each other a chance to start again.
