Sexual Health
What should I do if I discover my child is homosexual? How to do a good job in adolescent sex education
A former friend visited and shyly said, 'His 13-year-old son plays with his neighbor's peers, goes to school together from kindergarten to elementary school, has the same hands and feet, and always looks the same.'. But recently, he feels that the relationship between the two children hiding behind their backs seems a bit abnormal. The careful father finally discovered that the two children were working together. A vulgar hook, such as playing with the other person's external reproductive organs. He was both anxious and panicked about this, suspecting whether the two children had developed homosexuality.
I also met a high school girl. In the past month, her mood has been sad and melancholic, and she has even flashed with thoughts of suicide and worldliness. After inquiry, it turned out that this anxiety was caused by losing a "close friend". She used to have a close relationship with a female classmate. They had sworn to be in love and would never be interested or socialized with any other third party in their lifetime, dedicating their lifelong love to each other. However, this special relationship lasted for two years, and the girl student's relationship changed again, and she became good with another girl student. This made her both sad and jealous, wanting to die. After some guidance, I found that this girl has been afraid and dislikes men since childhood. It turned out that there was a vicious incident where a girl was raped and killed near her home when she was a child. After the incident, her parents were very nervous. Every time she went out alone, she had to avoid strangers and be careful not to be kidnapped or raped. My father also took special protective measures, picking her up and dropping her off from school every day until she finished high school.
These two cases raise a question, is it possible for adolescent girls to also experience homosexuality?
Homosexuality and homosexuality are two completely different concepts. Adolescent teenagers yearn for friendship, find someone who can understand them, promote long conversations with their knees, and confide in the quiet language of their hearts. At the same time, they are in the stage of heterosexual exclusion. So, it is normal for their close friends to be like-minded, sincere, and closely connected peers of the same sex. Due to the developmental stage of the sexual physiology of young boys and girls during this period, the phenomenon of sexual maturity is widespread, which contradicts their childish ideology. The hazy sexual psychology prompts them to experience sexual sensations through various blind means, such as hugging, kissing, and playing with the external genitalia. Their venting targets are mostly their close friends, so they should not be considered homosexual.