What should children do to establish a correct gender perspective and prevent precocious puberty

Every boy's growth is accompanied not only by his father's scolding, but also by his mother's crying. Of course, in sex education, the mother not only appears as the protagonist of crying in front of the child.

For boys, the mother's kind guidance is undoubtedly the most crucial process in their sex education career. So, mothers' sex education for boys cannot be ignored.

Establishing a correct gender perspective

Children around the age of 3 have a clear understanding of whether they are male or female. Why do women wear skirts with long hair, dress up for family drinks, wear pants with short hair, and ride horses to fight? This is the beginning of a child's gender psychological development. At this stage, mothers must pay attention to two principles. One is to help boys protect their bodies, and the other is to give boys a positive impression of various parts of their bodies.

In fact, as an only child boy, he has been favored by his parents and elders since childhood. He has limited outdoor activities and enjoys reading comics and playing with computers at home. He has become accustomed to jumping and illogical thinking, and does not understand how to feel the people and things around him, easily becoming selfish and indifferent. Some boys reach the age of marriage, and their hearts are still like children, without the awareness of shoulders, unable to afford it. Therefore, mothers should cultivate gender awareness in boys as early as possible.

Natural transmission of 'sexual knowledge'

For sexual questions raised by children, mothers should try to tell them in simple language that these are natural things, so that children can have a correct and scientific understanding of the body. Mom would generously mention words such as "breasts" and "penis", just as naturally as telling him that this is an apple and that is a banana. Of course, it is necessary to inform the child that some parts of the human body are private and cannot be exposed, otherwise it will be very embarrassing.

The mother first needs to correct her own thoughts and provide the boy with correct guidance. In fact, the boy's sexual problems are as simple as what to eat tonight. Mothers only need intuitive answers, and too in-depth answers can actually confuse boys' thoughts.

Strengthening educational ethics

Early sex education is related to the physical and mental health of boys, as well as the stability of their families and society. Sexual education includes many aspects such as sexual physiology, psychology, morality, ethics, etc. Among them, sexual morality is a very important part.

Sexual morality is the sum of social norms that regulate sexual behavior between men and women. It can maintain the stability of social order and ensure the normal progress of social life. Usually, the content of sexual morality can be summarized as the correct views on love, chastity, and fertility in sexual moral norms. Its core is love and respect.