Post Date November, 17 2024
Early love not only poses great harm to children's growth, but also troubles parents. In fact, many parents have not taken the right approach and can only forcefully make their children stronger. How should parents solve their children's early love?
What to do with a child's early love
1. Guided by a correct outlook on life
Love is always the theme of literature, but a person's life is not about love, but about the ideals and aspirations of life. The outlook on life and the future are also important criteria for choosing the object of interest. If we strengthen the guidance of a correct outlook on life, it is possible to suppress behaviors that do not conform to social norms due to sexual needs. However, the education of a philosophy of life is a long-term accumulation process, and it is not something that can be achieved by digging a well in the face of thirst.
2. Teaching children how to identify others, especially the opposite sex
People say that first love is wonderful and a game for young men and girls. In the eyes of children, the object of first love is the impossible perfect person, because the special feelings towards the opposite sex deceive the truth. Therefore, teaching children how to break free from the influence of subtle emotions to identify the opposite sex and encouraging them to make more friends with the opposite sex can help identify the opposite sex and grasp oneself. Education in this regard seems to be based on social knowledge and novel stories.
3. Don't scold
After discovering a child's early love, it is not allowed to scold them, resulting in minors who have a particularly serious rebellious mentality. Doing so will only increase his resistance. Making him reject you, thinking that you have deprived him of his true love, and trying to break them up will actually become clumsy.
4. Understanding society and getting married
Due to the instigation of language novels and movies, children often do not understand the true society and marriage. Observing the families of relatives and friends with children who are prone to early love, going to the civil affairs office where divorce procedures are handled to understand what real marriage is like, and discussing together, most children may have divorced from their beautiful dreams.
5. School
Some parents find that their children have early love, not only suspecting their children, but also suspecting the education issues at school, and even making a scene at school. Actually, this approach is wrong. Making a big fuss about the school will only make both parties ugly, students cannot stay in the school, the school will also be suspected, and ultimately both parties will be hurt.
How to prevent early love in children
Early love in children is symbolic, as it means premature maturity and entering society, as well as seeking psychological needs beyond the family that cannot be met within it. If a child has a warm home with parents who care enough for them, it is not easy for them to seek warmth outside of their home too early to enjoy hiding in their comfort zone before it is too late.
