Post Date November, 16 2024
Recent news reports have shown that a 13-year-old girl gives condoms to her single father on Father's Day, which is particularly surprising. A girl who is only 13 years old may not even have menarche. She understood the function of condoms. Therefore, children's sex education is not that simple. Parents guide their children to grow up in a normal sexual education environment through actions. What should be paid attention to when conducting enlightenment education?
Enlightenment Education Should Pay Attention to Methods
1. Conversational and not shy
Parents say they don't know how to talk to their children, how can such privacy be treated as a normal conversation in front of their children? In addition, the guardian also reported that they were embarrassed when encountering intimate scenes while watching TV with their children.
Parents always want their children to remain innocent and pure in their childhood, and do not want them to learn about relevant knowledge as soon as possible, missing out on the best opportunity for sex education for their children. Because children do not feel shy at this time, it is most effective to directly impart scientific knowledge. In fact, it is not enough to rely solely on schools to maintain and promote students' physical and mental health. The educational methods of parents and the psychological atmosphere and environment of families greatly affect the physical and mental development of children.
2. Talking about sex through matters
If you don't know how to talk about sex with your child and always think you can't find a suitable opportunity to communicate about sex with them, then you can start a discussion on sex through intimate TV footage. During the discussion, you should also fully refer to your child's views on sex, in order to guide them to have a correct understanding of sex.
Whether it is news, animation, variety show or idol dramas that children like, boys and girls, physical health and intimate topics are common, both positive and negative. At this point, parents can provide appropriate sexual knowledge to their children with a relaxed and humorous kiss. There's no need to argue or make a big fuss, don't forget, you're still enjoying the program.
3. Avoid boys and girls wearing female clothing
There is a situation where parents like to dress up boys as girls, wearing skirts and braids. Some parents also dress up girls as boys, although it is an inconspicuous move, it can cause children to have obstacles to their gender at an early age. Their daughter is gay and they are very desperate.
