When he and she got married, many people were not optimistic about their marriage. Because she is a delicate and sensitive person with high demands for life, while he is a careless and emotional person with many shortcomings. She was born into a scholarly family, and he comes from a peasant family. The two of them have vastly different lifestyles, hobbies, and hobbies. But it is precisely this difference that strongly attracts the two people, allowing them to break through layers of resistance and combine together.
On his wedding night, he said sincerely to the bride, "I have many flaws and lack the ability to reflect. Sometimes I don't know what I did wrong. You are more educated and reasonable than me, so please forgive me more
She nodded and said, "I've thought about this a long time ago. In life, there are many things that can be corrected if you make mistakes, and some things that can never be turned back. So, I have listed 10 clauses that I can forgive you for your mistakes. If you make any of these 10 mistakes, I will choose to forgive you
After marriage, there were indeed many ups and downs in their lives. He is competitive and can't withstand being provoked by others in a few words. He bet a month's salary on the card table and ended up going home penniless to face his starving children. He asked her, "Did I make a mistake that can be forgiven?" She nodded with tears in her eyes.
He was a good drinker, and once he got drunk and broke a lot of things at home. She came to stop him, but he slapped her twice and pushed her to the corner, causing a big scratch on his face. After waking up, he saw the scars on her face and asked her, "Did I make a mistake that can be forgiven?" She nodded with tears in her eyes.
He is suspicious. She has had a lot of contact with a male colleague due to work reasons. He doubted for no reason that she would do something wrong to him, so he tried every means to interfere with her work. What's even more, once she and her male colleague were working overtime in the office when he suddenly broke in with someone. That time, she was very angry, and this personal humiliation made her both sad and disappointed.
He knew that his mistake this time was a bit outrageous, and he begged her forgiveness with his eyes. Finally, she nodded.
In a flash, it was already his and her golden wedding anniversary. He asked a long-standing question in his heart, "What were the 10 mistakes you promised to forgive me in the beginning
She smiled slightly and said, "To be honest, in 50 years, I have never listed these 10 mistakes in detail. Whenever you do something wrong that makes me sad, I immediately remind myself that fortunately, he made one of the 10 mistakes that I can forgive
In the gaze of the four eyes, there was a slight flicker of tears. It turns out that tolerance and acceptance are the secrets of marital happiness.