Be humiliated in public
Just like Zidane in the World Cup final hit Materazzi recklessly, men should protect their own, family and family image and reputation in any case. The most exciting thing for them is to damage their own reputation. It can even make the strongest man mentally collapse, which can't be cured with any amount of money.
No matter whether men feel safe about their situation or not, they will worry about their safety; They often fear that they may not look so perfect, like a fool, or stupid and stupid; They are not afraid of stuttering when speaking formally, or being timid when chatting, being criticized by the boss in public at the morning meeting, having a problem with the zipper of their pants, playing an own goal on the football field, etc. These are not big problems for men. They just make a mistake or a low-level mistake, but if they are humiliated in public, they will simply feel ashamed, which is absolutely unacceptable, They must step forward to protect their reputation.
Son and father of man
The pain of losing his father is the most likely time for a man to fall into meditation. He will think of his own death. Becoming a parent suddenly is actually a heavy burden. For most men, this is an important turning point in life. They will think about what their father has done for them and what failures his father has made? Then they will consider how to be a better father and a more successful man, which means they must face their own shortcomings. For a man who is deeply grieved and struck, they are really facing many problems. He should have more opportunities and freedom to follow his own path in his own way.
Women are often ashamed to show their bodies, especially when they think they are not so satisfied with their bodies. In fact, men are more concerned about how women view their body image: whether the shoulders, pectoralis major, buttocks, arms and other parts have enough male characteristics. Men are fully aware of whether they are too fat, too thin, too hairy and smelly. So on the one hand, men are eager to peep at women's bodies, but they are full of anxiety when revealing their bodies.
Make money for making money
Although men are not necessarily the hunters of the family (the role of men in the era of nomadic life) or the only source of economy, they always subconsciously think that they are the backbone of the family and should be responsible for the wealth and happiness of the family. When men lose money, or can't earn enough money, or need to beg for money, this is undoubtedly a spiritual disaster. They will feel completely trapped in life, and have nothing to do from then on.
Men can't tolerate failure, whether it is lovelorn, lost, stocks locked up, work unsatisfactory or even fired, but there is a big difference between possible failure and complete failure. Men may be able to control their emotions after losing a game or talking in a bar, but men are all proud guys who never want someone to surpass them or deliberately block the way, which means that others have taken the lead. Those people will inevitably gloat.
Beautiful women and relationships
Among the many factors that make men feel afraid or threatened, beautiful women are one. It can be said that beautiful women have the power to attract their eyes no matter when and where they are at work, in the bookstore, or on the way. Although the power of beauty is transient, it is always a challenge. Men are all thrilled in front of beautiful women, so it is inevitable that they will make some stupid actions. When looking at other women, she was caught by her wife, and she often suddenly found that her husband's eyes were suddenly distracted and glazed, staring at the beauty beside her.
Become a bad lover
Men, of course, want to be heroes in bed. They can fight and win when they come, so that their women can fully enjoy the pleasure of sex. Men are afraid that women say "you are boring me", or do not leave any impression on each other or do not get the due satisfaction. Although this is not necessarily the responsibility of men, men must feel guilty and self-blame for it. If women disguise orgasm, it will make men more sad, so women should let men know what they want, and then men can know how to successfully complete the task.