What is the psychology of people who love oil? This kind of indecent behavior often occurs in crowded public places, such as buses, subways, etc. Why does this behavior often occur? What is the psychology behind implementing exterminators' behavior?
Reader's letter.
I am a girl who has just graduated from university for a year and met a male teacher at school. I always think he is a teacher. His daughter is older than me. His family rarely goes abroad. He is the only person at home. His leg is sick, and he always finds some trustworthy students to do housework. I cleaned the floor and he left us to eat at his house. Slowly get to know him. He occasionally jokingly touches my chest. Sometimes it can be avoided from being utilized. But he is my teacher. I can't say anything. He doesn't always do this. I believe he has been here for a long time.
I haven't been in touch for 6 months after graduation. Occasionally send him a blessing message and then want to visit his classmates. They are in the same city. So I sent a message asking if he had time to visit him with my classmates, so I went to his house with them.
Since then, he has occasionally sent me emails asking what happened at my house. Because he believes he has many things he doesn't understand. Then he calls me every day. Slowly, I began to look forward to his phone call. He always says that I am the closest person in his family. I simply believe what he said.
Later, my classmates and I went to see him stay at his house several times. But at that time, he always talked to me and hugged me. I got used to it without saying anything. This is not very annoying, but I never thought about doing anything with him. Then he asked me to go see him alone. He asked me to stay at his house. I didn't go. He made me sleep at night. He works very late. I thought he would sleep in another bed in the middle of the night. He slept with me. He came to hug me and hide from him. He went to bed without touching me. When he woke up in the morning, he came to the building again. He held my hand. I kept holding his hand. Then he didn't touch me and hugged me. After a while, I said I had to go to work early, and he stood up to cook for me. Then I left his home. I don't know if I'm in love with him. I really like him. I'm in my arms. I don't like him touching me.
When he came back, I felt like I had done something wrong. If I continue like this, I will give him a message, saying that I only treat him as a relative. I don't want to continue like this. He sent me a message saying he was sorry. Never call me again. Suddenly there was no phone call from him, he looked forward to his call every day. I couldn't help but contact him. I know I can't do it. But I still don't think he thinks much. He called to pick me up. Just no ambiguity from the past. Ask me about work and talk about his work.
I am very conflicted. I don't know if I'm in love with him. I have never been in love before. I don't know what it feels like to fall in love with someone. I don't want to contact him, but I can't give up. If you contact him again, if you care more about him, he will say something ambiguous. I know she's a bit confused with other female students. I don't know if such a person is worth believing. Worth being a friend all the time. I want to ask you what I should do.
Reply.
Many people in the world like oil.
What does oil mean?
Long ago, there was a wealthy and stingy donor in Huizhou. He eats green vegetable tofu every day. Although there is no oil or water, he always wipes a little lard on the corners of his mouth after meals. The oil lamp is standing at the door, and my family is having lard stew today. This is the ancestor of oil.
Lu Xun specializes in discussing the issue of oil removal, which is not only a secret operation, but also a fair, fair, and unrelated act of men eating women's tofu. Just like money, discrimination and disrespect towards women in society are beneficial.
Why do men like oil?
Firstly, extinguishing oil can bring excitement. Extinguishing oil is actually stolen. It's not as exciting as theft.
Secondly, the consequences of oil are not serious. Oil exterminators are usually a bit overblown and harmless, capable of causing fatal harm to the other party without any risks or consequences. So everyone can rest assured of oil loss.
The third man saw the nature of women. People without moral limitations can make instinctive and moral people think, but they still consciously control it.
So, what kind of man likes to wipe oil on?
In my opinion, a person who loves oil is an unscrupulous person because he is not satisfied with formal channels.
Another person who likes to eliminate oil is those with low moral qualities who let go without moral constraints.
Another person who kills oil is a pervert. Only by stealing can you feel happy.
So when someone tells you a dirty joke, give you a little eye and make some intimate gestures. Don't be wrong. He just wants to apply oil. Just to satisfy your pleasure.
So women use male oil too much as a signal of love.
Returning to your question, a person named Teacher (polluting the reputation of a teacher) is too dirty. He just wants to apply oil. Stay away from this old and dirty person. Don't talk about love. He doesn't love you. He is not worth being a friend.